Life Hacks/Special cases

The sexual acts mentioned on the consent minimums page apply to cases where it is you and your partner by yourselves in private (for mild sex acts and above,) in sex that does not involve any form of fetish. These form a good basis to judge situations on, but there are a few special cases that one needs to be aware of. These are what the results will be in fetish sex, especially exhibitionism, and also what the results will be to someone allowing you to perform sex acts on someone they are in charge of (known as the surrogate score.) These three situations, exhibitionism being taken separate from other forms of fetish sex, are each cases that deserve their own categories or possibly even an entire page. At the same time, they cannot be summed up as sex acts onto themselves. They are more like modifiers that can apply to absolutely any of the sex acts on the list, although for the most part benign and dismissable acts are not counted.

Fetish Sex

The general rule to go by for Fetish Sex is that fetish sex requires the primary score for the sex act + a level of trust appropriate to the fetish activity. A good general overview is given on the main page for trust levels for different types of fetish acts, but here it is repeated for your convenience.

NOTE: default +20 to the primary requirement if it is a fetish they do not particularly care for. May be a higher or lower modifier on a case by case basis depending on the degree of their objection to the fetish. (writer's discretion)

• 0% Suspicious/untrusting

Fetish: Will not engage in any fetish sex.

• 10% Hesitant

Fetish: Will permit someone with a non-threatening fetish such as a foot fetish to, in that case, touch and/or manipulate their feet or paint their nails(or whatever the equivalent would be for a different non-threatening fetish,) but may or may not draw a line at licking.

• 30% At ease

Fetish: Minimum for swinger or cuck sex or any sex based on having sex with someone generally perceived as dangerous.

• 50% non-suspicious

Fetish: Minimum for the majority of fetish sex, does not include any form of sex that would require a "safe word."

• 70% Trusting

Fetish: Minimum for any form of safe-word requiring sex, including BDSM, choking, and rape role-play.

• 90% Blind Trust

Fetish: Required for the most extreme and potentially life-threatening activities during sex.

NOTE: For children young enough to use Trust as their primary requirement for sexual consent, instead of requiring trust and a primary score to both make the adequate cuts, instead 1/2 the requirement for the fetish act is added to the consent score for the normal sex act the fetish is performed with.

Exhibitionism

Exhibitionism is a unique creature within the world of fetish sex in terms of consent as it takes in a lot more factors due to it no longer being private sex. It will depend on levels of body same, for one. It will also depend on the partner's closeness to the people observing, and finally whether or not they happen to have an exhibition fetish. These three factors can even interact with one another.

The general rule is that higher levels of body shame lead to higher resistance to exhibitionism, but also a higher sexual thrill if they happen to have this fetish. So, body shame is a moot point for those with the fetish, but will add to resistance on a 1 to 1 basis for those who don't. Also, those who have the exhibitionism fetish will feel more comfortable doing it in front of complete strangers than someone they know as they will have to live with the consequences if someone they knew found out where as with total strangers it can't be tracked back to them. The opposite is true for those who do not have this fetish. Those with the exhibition fetish will add resistance equivalent to their level of body shame to exhibitionism in front of someone they know.

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Surrogate Consent

Surrogate Consent is how likely a person is to consent to you performing a sex act with someone they feel responsibility for, normally a parent allowing sex acts with their child or an older sibling allowing sex acts with their younger sibling. The primary scores for this are trust and friendship, but the final scores can also be moved WILDLY by taboos, the relationship you have to their charge, and the relationship THEY have to their charge. The sex act in question being performed also matters. If the surrogate sex requirement score exceeds 200 then there is no way to convince them to willingly let you perform this sex act on their charge unless the conditions raising their requirement score are changed.

Acquiring surrogate consent is as follows. Your friendliness plus trust with the person giving surrogate consent must exceed the score on the surrogate consent minimum list, witch is similar to the self consent minimums with some different numbers and some specific acts differing. (there are also some standard modifiers in regards to your partner's age and fertility that will be added to all levels)

EDIT: The above paragraph and all information below has been updated in order to simplify this needlessly complicated system.

Consent minimums (Note: rated out of 200)

Benign and dissmissable acts (All acts -20 if you are openly in a romantic relationship)

• All benign acts: (20)
• Dismissable acts not registered as sexual: (30)

Note: failure to gain surrogate consent for this will result in them just stating you shouldn't be doing it without a big deal being made of it, gaining consent will result in it being completely dismissed and even allowed to continue without issue.

• Dismissable acts registered as intentional and sexual: (50)

Child to child acts regarded as dismissable The following acts will be regarded as dismissable so long as you are a child while doing them.

• Using the bathroom together
• Changing cloths in front of each other

Mild sex acts (All acts (except initially accepting a romantic relationship +40 if not in a stated relationship, and +20 if they did not approve of the relationship)

• Acknowledge you are in a romantic relationship: (40) (Note: Negative modifiers will not affect this score, but positive modifiers can)
• All kissing: (40)
• Sexting: (65)
• All groping or dry humping over cloths: 80
• Any nudity or showing of privates with each other: (80)

Moderate sex acts (All acts +40 if not in a stated relationship or if they did not accept you being in a relationship)

• Groping under cloths: (80)
• Oral sex or masturbating each other: (90) (Note: where the semen goes does not matter, unless it is being observed by the one giving surrogate consent it witch case it is a case-by-case basis)

Hard-core sex (All acts +40 if not in a stated relationship, or +60 if in a relationship that they did not approve of)

• Lesbian sex: (80)
• PIV sex with condom: (90)
• Gay sex: (110)
• PIV sex without condom: (120)

Modifiers

• Partner is an 18+ adult on birth control: (-60)
• Pre-pubescent partner, consent giver has no pedophila taboo: (-40) (Note: neutralized if consent giver has this taboo)
• Pubescent teen partner on birth control (or you are on birth control): (-20)
• Partner is an 18+ adult not on birth control: (0)
• Partner is a pubescent teen not on birth control (or you are not on birth control): (+20)
• Partner is known to be a precociously pubescent child not on birth control (consent giver does not have a pedophilia taboo): (+30) (Note: modifier for pedophilia taboo stacks with this one)
• Partner expresses mild discomfort with you performing sex acts on them to consent giver: (+1/2 familial love or friendliness)
• Partner outwardly considers the sex act sexual assault or rape, or is similarly disgusted if they do not know to express it in such terms: (+full familial love or friendlines, and additional + of 10 per level of act, (10 for benign or dismissable, 20 for mild, 30 for moderate, 40 for hard core))
• Consent giver trusts your partner: (-1/2 trust stat between them and your partner, minimum 50 trust required)

Taboos such as pedophilia or premarital sex may also be added at up to twice the rate of what would be applied for them engaging in the act themselves.

Special cases

• March: March is a cuck for Xander. As such, his submissiveness to Xander also counts toward his surrogate consent.

• Trish: Trish is a little messed up on this subject and applies a -40 to all surrogate consent scores.