WBWP/Go with these settings (PSE)
So, all the standard stuff so far as sex education goes. It should be noted that sex education is according to the school curriculum as it would have been for a child born in the 90s, this means that they get a quick run-down about the biology behind how reproduction works some time in middle school, varying slightly from school to school but usually placing it at about age 12, and then during freshman year of highschool at about age 14 they take a health class where some more explicit sex ed that still lacks a great deal compared to what a parent could give is taught and this time they include information on a few forms of birth control focusing especially on condoms including how to put them onto a banana and otherwise making mention of the pill and a few other forms of female birth control.
Apart from this, there are occasional programs that come in and talk to elementary schoolers that might say some things that would inspire sexually molested children to come forward serving as an occasional re-enforcement of "good touch vs. bad touch," but it kinda hems around the edges and would mean more to a child that actually had been molested and wouldn't make much of an impression on a child who hadn't.
Aside from this, you also indicated that your partner was a virgin. The term virgin kinda means different things to different people though. Some think it means you have done nothing sexual at all, some think giving a hand-job maintains your virginity. Some in the porn industry even use the term "professional virgin," which is a term that means even if you have had full on vaginal sex and had sperm ejaculated inside the vagina it still does not count so long as it was in front of the camera. Clearly a standard definition needs to be used here. For the purposes of making a standardized definition of the term "virgin," we are going to use the Catholic party girl definition of the term and say that PIV sex is the only thing that makes you no longer a virgin, and you can enjoy oral, anal, and even bukake and still be a virgin, and will carry it one further to say rubbing the bukake semen into the vagina still counts as a virgin.
So, even as a virgin, how much sexual experience has your partner had?
- They aren't even aware of the opposite gender's genitals (Or their own vagina if female)
- They are aware of the opposite gender's genitals, but have never seen them
- They have innocently seen the opposite gender's genitals (such as in the bath as a very young child)
- They have engaged in some innocent "sex play" (seeing and touching another child's genitals, I.E. "playing doctor," this is assumed to be the default as all children have usually done this much by age 11 or so.)
- They have engaged in some more experimental "sex play" (Getting dangerously close to sex or a sexual fetish, still taken as childish exploration in own mind)
- They have exchanged hand jobs or blow jobs/cunnilingus
- They have performed every sex act except PIV
- They have acted like an absolute party slut/man-whore, but amazingly has avoided PIV