Life Hacks/Lloyd's sex-changed sexuality (September/Steph)
This is the new format for showing what the individual character's reaction will be to sexual advances with them depending on their sexual history, sexual knowledge, sexual quirks, and their relationship with you. It contains some of the information from the old system, and also goes into detail about how they might react to individual sex acts giving various ways you might approach them. Please note that there will always be a chance they might reject you regardless of relationship score depending on your approach and their mood at the time due to other factors. Also note that the scores say a "recommended" relationship score before pursuing a sex act. It is possible to get them to agree with a lower score if you use the best approach (especially if you have high social skills.)
Sexual history
Steph's sexuality will not be all that much different from when she was Lloyd. Steph, like when she was Lloyd, is somewhere between her two immediately older siblings, June and August, when it comes to their game of peeing in the woods behind their house while watching each other.
She does get a genuine thrill out of peeing in front of her siblings and getting to see her siblings pee. However, the thing that makes her really like it is the fact that it is the five of them doing it together. Unlike when she was Lloyd though, rather than seeing it as a "secret club," she instead just likes doing things as a group and knows watching each other pee does something to bring them closer together as siblings since they are sharing a secret.
(She has come to view sexually inappropriate activities as a simple social bonding game of shared secrets.)
She has also taken to playing with her little brother Octo's penis in their bedroom at night, and lets him touch and explore her privates as well. This is her own private bonding game with Octo that she has not told August and the rest of the group playing the "peeing" game about. As her and Octo do not have any sexual knowledge, this play has not gone beyond just touching. Assuming Octo wasn't sex-changed along with her, she will have had Octo rub his penis in her slit, but they've not discovered her vagina or penetration yet.
Sexual Knowledge
- Knows what male genitals look like?: Yes
- Knows how babies are made?: Knows babies grow in and come from the mother's belly, does not know how they get there.
- Knows what sex is?: No
- Knows what semen is?: No
General recommended approaches
Unlike June, Lloyd actually gets a naughty thrill out of dong things she knows her parents would disapprove of. Her sexuality has not matured enough for her to enjoy a sex act for its own sake, but she will like it for the fact that it is gross and socially taboo, as well as the sense of closeness it gives her with whoever is doing the sex acts with her.
Unlike when she was Lloyd, Steph will actually have a preference for you doing sexual things with her in private, just you and her. If you do it with the group in the peeing game, she will have a difficult time trusting your addition to the tight-nit group, but might ease up a little if you are doing things with everyone else and have done "naughty" things with her or one of the other members of the group on a previous occasion without telling anyone about it.
She will be far more amenable to doing sex acts with you in private, just the two of you. Doing so will give her a greater sense of closeness, having you all to herself, and it will even cause her to develop some romantic feelings for you if you avoid distressing her in any way during the encounter.
His reaction to specific sex acts
While the above can help you to predict how she might react to sex generally, below is how she will react to specific acts.
At the heading of each act, there will be a recommendation on witch relationship stat(s) will be most effective in getting him to lower his guard against this specific sex act if they cross a certain threshold. This threshold will be given a "low/medium/high" rating rather than a specific number. Although, there is a rough number each rating is meant to represent, as outlined by the table below.
- Non-existent = approximately 0-10% (you are not going to see this designation appearing much.)
- Very low = approximately 5-20%
- Low = approximately 10-40%
- Medium = approximately 30-70%
- High = approximately 60-90%
- Very high = approximately 80-95%
- Extreme = approximately 90-100%
Note: The categories do overlap. This is to represent the wiggle room given to the writer in a case by case basis in interpreting their current score. Also, it is entirely possible to achieve consent for a sex act while falling short of the threshold with exactly the right approach, and it is also possible to have them reject you while you have far exceeded the threshold with the wrong approach.
Final note: Submissiveness is a wild card for achieving non-resistance to a sex act. However, non-resistance does not mean they will like it.
Benign sex acts
Acts such as hand-holding, hugging, and having her sit in your lap. Things that are more or less non-sexual, but can be construed in a sexual way to some extent.
Steph is actually at an age where she's starting to resist simple affections like this as being 'treated like a baby,' and in her desire to grow up she will not appreciate many of these gestures. However, if she has medium submissiveness, she will begrudgingly accept anything of this level. (Might even appreciate hugging in some circumstances.)
Dismissable sex acts
Acts that can just as easily be seen as sexual as they can non-sexual or unintentional. Examples include holding her ass, being shirtless around one another, or oggling her crotch.
She has really not learned much modesty or sexual boundaries yet, and as such she will not really see an issue with anything of this level in the first place, even without any form of grooming. A few items deserving of special call-outs would be...
- "Accidentally" oggle her naked genitals while changing or using the bathroom together/Changing clothess in presence of each other, not going naked: Low fam or medium trust
The holiday family has a policy against co-ed changing or bathroom use, but she's fine with it if you want to break that rule so long as she feels some sense of familiarity with you. She won't even pay any mind to having her genitals looked at, accidentally or otherwise. If she notices, she may even take an interest and see you as a new person she can "share a naughty secret" with and be excited to let you see more.
In the case of changing, she would regard going completely naked in the changing room, even with a member of the opposite gender, as being every bit as dismissible as the non-naked version.
- Fondle her fully clothed ass while hugging or other such activity/"secretly" dry-hump leg, hip, or ass: No enemy stat.
She wouldn't even understand what's being done or notice, as such she only needs you to not have an enemy stat with her for her to allow this without question. She would only get confused over this as she is unaware of the sexual nature of what's being done.
- Make sexually charged or sexually related banter with each other: Null or Low fam/medium trust depending on approach.
As she doesn't have much in terms of actual sex knowledge despite how "naughty" she gets with her games with her siblings, she would not really understand obtuse references to sexual things in a banter sort of way. She would either need it dumbed down to a kid level, or she would need it to get a lot more explicit before she'd be able to keep up.
If the correct approach is used to help her keep in the game though, she will actually be very interested in talking about this sort of thing and it would make her eager to actually try some stuff.
Mild sex acts
Acts that would not be regarded as sex but cannot be seen as anything but sexual, such as kissing, groping, dry-humping, or revealing privates.
This is actually the realm of sex acts she's most comfortable with operating in. She would eagerly participate in most of these sex acts with you so long as she feels you won't be telling anyone about it.
- Kissing: High romantic love
Due to her immaturity, she regards kissing as gross. She would actually have higher standards for a peck on the lips than she would have for full sexual intercourse. She might allow you to kiss her if she has already had sex with you and finds out sex is how babies are made, and thus having had sex means you are practically married already. (This sequence of events would lower the requirement to 'medium love.')
- Grope crotch over cloths: Low friendliness
She would see this as being just weird and wouldn't understand why you'd be doing this. If told it's to touch her privates, she'd feel it'd be something better to be done without the clothes in the way or if you'd reached inside her pants and not understand why you're touching on the outside.
She might accept this if she's told it's to keep it secret in case someone else notices, but she still will feel it's pointless and better just not to do it at all by that reasoning.
- Show privates to each other for no reason other than to just look: Medium trust, or low trust and fam.
This is the activity she would enjoy most. She regards this sort of thing as a bonding activity and would enjoy showing you her privates and looking at yours more for the fact that the shared naughty secret will give you something in common.
Essentially, showing each other your privates is something she's associated with friendliness and relationship-building, just something she does to be friends.
- Use toilet with other present in bathroom: Low trust
If you've shown your willingness to do "naughty things" with her, she'd actively drag you into the bathroom with her to watch her pee, giving you an easy full view of her pussy as she does it. This is another thing she's associated with relationship building among her siblings, and as such she'd be more than excited to show you so she can be your friend.
- Reference or discuss moderate or hard-core sex with each other: Low fam, trust, or friendliness
She has not heard of doing the more blatantly sexual things, but she will immediately be very interested to hear them talked about and suggested, making her want to try most of them as soon as she's able.
- Crotch to crotch clothed dry-humping: Very low fam, trust, or friendliness
She wouldn't understand this activity, and thus not know to complain. She'd be more likely to react negatively to being physically restrained than by the activity in her crotch.
- Be casually naked with one another: Low trust
She'd be very willing to strip naked if asked so long as she trusts you won't get her in trouble for it.
Moderate sex acts
Sex acts that most would consider sex, but would not get the "hard-core" label if filmed and put on a porn site.
- Touch each other's bare genitals with hand: Very low friendliness
She's excited at the idea of getting to explore other's genitals, and open to having hers touched as well. She'd be eager to engage in this activity as soon as it's suggested.
- Touch your bare genitals together: Very low friendliness
She'd recognize this as an escalation of touching with hands, and that makes it even more enticing to her. She'll just plain think it's fun.
If Octo has not been sex-changed to a girl as well, she will have already engaged in this activity with her little brother Octo.
- Masturbate partner to orgasm: Low trust, fam, and friendliness, or medium in any one.
She will be somewhat distressed by the new physical sensations of orgasm and will need plenty of assurances as the scary new feelings are overtaking her body. This will require her to have a friendly and trusting relationship with you.
- Ejaculate on her body, below neck: Very low sub if in bathroom, low sub with tissues or towels, medium sub if introduced to cum-eating, high sub if expected to just wear the cum
She will actually think semen is cool, but she won't like being messy. How likely she is to accept this depends entirely on what kind of clean-up options are available. If it's done in the bathroom, she'll accept this easily.
- Ejaculate on her head, hair, or face: As above, but raise everything by 2 levels.
She will think it's rather gross to have her face or hair ejaculated on, and is likely to resist it without an adequate level of submissiveness.
- Ejaculate on or near her crotch while she knows semen makes babies: Very low sub if in bathroom or if tissues are available, low sub if expected to wear it in her underwear.
Steph is too young to actually process what it means to have a baby. As such, discovering semen makes babies will make her think she'd like to try getting pregnant as though it were a silly game. She'll start wanting you to ejaculate all your semen inside her vagina, and her only resistance to having these external ejaculations will be the fact it's not inside.
- Perform oral sex on her: Med sub
She will be freaked out by this and think it's gross at first, but will accept it if you keep doing this.
- Have her perform oral sex on you: High sub
She will think actually sucking someone else's crotch is absolutely disgusting, and will need to be really forced into it before she'll try. She'll also need to have someone lead by example, either on her or on the person she's expected to suck.
Hard-core sex acts
Sex acts that involve semen and/or the penis going into a vagina or anus.
- Have anal sex with her: Medium sub, or medium trust with grooming and vaginal sex first.
She will think things to do with her butt are gross, and therefore think it's really gross you want to put your penis where her poop comes from.
- PIV sex while ignorant to its role in impregnation: Low sub, or low trust if she knows about ejaculations
Her resistance to vaginal sex will be notably lower than anal sex, mostly because the vagina is her 'girl privates,' and the penis is your 'boy privates,' and she'll think it's cool to put them together.
The most effective way to get her to agree to vaginal sex is actually for her to be introduced to semen and then suggest trying to ejaculate inside her privates.
- Vaginal sex with a condom: Medium sub with previous PIV sex experience or knows sex makes babies, high sub without
She will think condoms are weird, whether she knows sex makes babies or not. The main reason she'd allow you to put your penis inside her is because she's interested in getting semen in her vagina, and the condom keeps that from happening. If she's submissive enough, she would accept this with the justification that you don't want to make a baby with her, but she will not understand the need to take that precaution herself.
- PIV sex while aware that it makes babies/Intentionally impregnate her: Low sub or fam, or very low trust, friendliness, or romantic love
She is too young to properly understand what it really means to have a baby. As such, getting pregnant is just a silly game to her, and it seems like something she'd like to try doing for the fun of it. As such, upon discovering sex makes babies, she'll actively want you to ejaculate all your semen into her vagina in order to get her pregnant.
Fetish sex acts
Peculiarities to his sexuality, including desires that do not have strictly to do with reproductive sex as well as what his response would be to physical or psychological force being used to perform a sex act with him. (Note: Relationship recommendations are not given at the beginning as these are things that simply manifest at the appropriate level of sex act. Feeding the fetish is more of a good approach than anything.)
- Results of physical force in sex acts:
- Results of psychological force in sex acts: (Using partner's submissiveness to demand sex even when they don't want it)