Life Hacks/Jan's sexuality

This is the new format for showing what the individual character's reaction will be to sexual advances with them depending on their sexual history, sexual knowledge, sexual quirks, and their relationship with you. It contains some of the information from the old system, and also goes into detail about how they might react to individual sex acts giving various ways you might approach them. Please note that there will always be a chance they might reject you regardless of relationship score depending on your approach and their mood at the time due to other factors. Also note that the scores say a "recommended" relationship score before pursuing a sex act. It is possible to get them to agree with a lower score if you use the best approach (especially if you have high social skills.)

Sexual history

Jan has not had her sex-ed class in school yet, and so she has no real knowledge about sex. She started having her period when she was 10 and is a light bleeder, but tends to get really cuddly with her father or older brother when she is on the rag. She has noticed herself becoming more curious about the difference between boys and girls and has taken a liking to hanging out in March and Agust's room while the boys are in. She knows it probably won't happen, but she secretly hopes her brothers will start sexually exploring each other's bodies like she knows her older sisters do and maybe forget she is there while they are doing it.

2 years ago, when her younger brother Octo was 3, she liked to "help him on the potty" when she could, but she realizes she lost interest when he got old enough she could no longer use that excuse to see his privates. While Decy has started potty training and she could probably get an even better look at his privates, she kind of wants to see the privates of a boy closer to her own age.

She has recently learned that March does all his sexual explorations with Xander while he is visiting his house, and has been trying to think of a way to convince her brother to bring her along when he goes to visit Xander.

Sexual Knowledge

The closest thing Jan has had to a sexual education is when her older sister taught her to use her feminine products while she was having her period. Aside from that, she has been taught not to let strangers or boys see or touch her privates, and not to let female family members touch them unless necessary, but without a proper reason given she is starting to question the basis behind these rules.

• Knows where babies come from?: Everyone in the Holliday family knows babies come from mommy's belly and that daddy does something to put the baby in there, and that it has something to do with being married and sleeping in the same bed. She does not know specifics beyond that but is certainly curious. (the parental filters on the internet that block porn are a bit too sensitive and even block medical explanations of sex.)

• Knows what a boy's penis looks like?: Has seen her infant and toddler brothers' penises several times, sometimes multiple times a day. Has never seen an adult or teen penis, and has never seen one erect.

• Knows what semen is?: No.

• Knows what sex is?: She has heard the word "sex" before, but doesn't know what it is. She has looked at her little brothers' penises before in the bathroom, and knows about older boys and girls touching each other, but has not made the connection that these things are related to sex. She thinks this stuff is just "playing with privates" and is not all that aware of the adult nature of any of it.

General recommended approaches

She is incredibly curious and interested in seeing an older boy's penis, and is also quite willing to show her own in exchange. She also wants to touch and explore the boy's penis and is willing to let herself be touched back in exchange. She will not do this with just anyone of course, but she would have practically zero resistance for male members of her family so long as she doesn't think she will get in trouble over it. (This means her father is out, but her older brother March and Xander who she views as a brother are both fine.)

As such, the best approach with her is simply to find a quiet place together and start agreeing to do things with her. She will be more willing to go a lot farther if she's allowed to join in on one of Xander's and March's masturbation sessions and the peer pressure and expectations of both of her older brother figures will get her to agree to just about anything.

Letting her know sex makes babies will make her a bit more hesitant, but she might be willing to keep having sex if she's had sex before finding this out and it continues afterward.

Her reaction to specific sex acts

While the above can help you to predict how she might react to sex generally, below is how she will react to specific acts.

At the heading of each act, there will be a recommendation on witch relationship stat(s) will be most effective in getting her to lower her guard against this specific sex act if they cross a certain threshold. This threshold will be given a "low/medium/high" rating rather than a specific number. Although, there is a rough number each rating is meant to represent, as outlined by the table below.

• Non-existent = approximately 0-10% (you are not going to see this designation appearing much.)
• Very low = approximately 5-20%
• Low = approximately 10-40%
• Medium = approximately 30-70%
• High = approximately 60-90%
• Very high = approximately 80-95%
• Extreme = approximately 90-100%

Note: The categories do overlap. This is to represent the wiggle room given to the writer in a case by case basis in interpreting their current score. Also, it is entirely possible to achieve consent for a sex act while falling short of the threshold with exactly the right approach, and it is also possible to have them reject you while you have far exceeded the threshold with the wrong approach.

Final note: Submissiveness is a wild card for achieving non-resistance to a sex act. However, non-resistance does not mean they will like it.

Benign sex acts

Acts such as hand-holding, hugging, and having her sit in your lap. Things that are more or less non-sexual, but can be construed in a sexual way to some extent.

She loves light shows of affection with her father and older brother(s), and would have a child-like innocence toward any of these things if done that doesn't have her even considering any of this sexual in the least. Consider her already effectively in a "groomed" state for these acts. This also applies to the effect it has on making higher sex acts easier.

Dismissable sex acts

Acts that can just as easily be seen as sexual as they can non-sexual or unintentional. Examples include holding her ass, being shirtless around one another, or oggling her crotch.

She is so innocent and, at the same time, curious and open about sex related things that she is similarly unquestioning about the sex acts on the dismissible level.

The only exception is the "accidental" oggling of her bare genitals or breasts in some kind of scenario. She would innocently overlook this and accept excuses about it being accidental, but would have a slight bit more of a reaction, first reflex being to exercise the appropriate level of modesty, but her mind would start to go to thoughts of "revenge," getting to see the other person in return.

She can also be considered effectively "groomed" to these acts.

Mild sex acts

Acts that would not be regarded as sex but cannot be seen as anything but sexual, such as kissing, groping, dry-humping, or revealing privates.

Due to her starting out in what effectively amounts to having been groomed to benign and dismissible sex acts, she starts out with the same low resistance to mild acts that anyone else would have to benign acts. However, this only applies to older male members of her family, or those she considers "like family" such as Xander.

• Kissing: Low romantic love

She wouldn't consider this to be a typically brother-sister thing to do, but wouldn't see it as being much of a problem if it was with Xander who she has a crush on. She will instantly consider herself Xander's girlfriend if kissed on the lips by him without offering up much resistance.

• Grope breasts and/or genitals over cloths: Low trust, medium fam

She'd react to this about the same as getting hugged by a non-family member, perhaps thinking it's a little weird but ultimately non-threatening.

• Show privates to each other for no reason other than to just look: Medium to low trust.

This is something she wants to do with Xander and March and is actively pursuing an opportunity to do it by her own volition. As such, she will readily go to this level as soon as she trusts you enough to think you won't go telling her parents and getting her in trouble over it.

• Use toilet with other present in bathroom: Low trust

This is attached to her desire to look at opposite gender genitals, and the bathroom setting is somewhere she's already used to taking off her underwear since that's the expectation there.

She would be happy to use the bathroom together with March or Xander and be able to watch each other use the toilet.

• Reference or discuss moderate or hard-core sex with each other: Medium trust or low love

This all depends on how the subject is discussed. Due to her lack of sexual knowledge, talking about higher level sex acts casually without reference to reproduction or romance will have her become more open to higher sex acts and even feel obligated to escalate to those levels as that seems to be part of her brother's and Xander's "game."

• Crotch to crotch clothed dry-humping: Very low trust

She wouldn't actually understand what's being done here in the first place, and thus would have no reason to resist it other than the fact she's being restrained in her movements by it. If she's had sexual intercourse before or bare-genitals dry-humping, she will have more of an idea of what's happening, and this will have her equally unconcerned because this is a lesser version of something she's already done.

• Be casually naked with one another: Medium trust and experience looking at genitals

If she's already been accepted to joining in with Xander's and March's games, or similar games with just one of them, she will have no issue with casual demands to strip and just being naked with each other as soon as the "games" have started.

Moderate sex acts

Sex acts that most would consider sex, but would not get the "hard-core" label if filmed and put on a porn site.

She actually wants to touch as much as she wants to see. As such, in her innocence, touching with hands or rubbing genitals together would be considered "mild" sex acts for her purposes.

She will think semen is gross at first, but will learn to accept it quickly when she knows getting a boy to ejaculate is the whole point. She might be a bit more concerned upon learning it makes babies when it goes inside a girl's vagina though.

She will be more hesitant to oral stuff, finding mouth-to-genital activities a bit gross, but is willing to try it if pushed enough as she's susceptible to expectations and is not familiar enough with sex stuff to have proper boundaries.

• Touch each other's bare genitals with hand: Low trust, medium fam

If she'll agree to showing privates, she'll agree to touching.

• Rub your bare genitals together: Low trust, medium fam

Doesn't see much difference between rubbing genitals with hands or rubbing genitals with opposite gender genitals and would agree to letting it be done rather easily.

• Masturbate partner to orgasm: Low trust (receiving,) low to medium trust (giving)

She will like the experience of being given an orgasm, but would be upset to see a boy ejaculate when she gets him to orgasm if she was not warned about it ahead of time. She would need to be coaxed and assured everything's alright and it's normal after seeing an ejaculation for the first time.

That said, if she has been warned ahead of time, she'll actually be quite curious to see semen and excited to make a boy orgasm.

• Ejaculate on her body, anywhere between her stomach and her knees, while she is not aware semen makes babies: medium trust and fam, or low trust if she has watched you and March ejaculate on each other.

She will need some warming up to the idea of letting herself be ejaculated on, but if she sees you and March are also doing it then she will very much want in on the game.

She will actually like getting her crotch ejaculated on the best, particularly right inside her slit. However, she will feel betrayed and angry if she discovers later that this has a high risk of getting her pregnant and you knew about it.

• Ejaculate on her head, hair, chest, or face: High sub

She will think it's gross to get semen anywhere near her face since it comes out of a penis, but may be willing to cave and allow this more easily if others are pressuring her into it or she's not the only one doing it. (Medium sub with one or the other, or low sub with both.)

• Ejaculate on or near her groin while she is aware semen makes babies: High romantic love, medium sub and trust. (all lowered by one if she's in denial.)

Jan does not really want to get pregnant because she's somewhat aware it'd probably be a bad thing, but due to her immature brain she has a poor relationship between actions and consequences and as such it will not take a whole lot to help her get over this apprehension.

If she's already had semen inside or near her vagina by the time she discovers this information, there is a high chance depending on how she found out that she'll be in denial, which will make her more resistant than when she didn't know but not as resistant as when she's sure of the information or when she's protecting herself against even the first insemination.

• Perform oral sex on her:

• Have her perform oral sex on you:

Hard-core sex acts

Sex acts that involve semen and/or the penis going into a vagina or anus.

• Girl on girl homosexual sex:

• PIV sex while she is ignorant to its role in impregnation: Low trust, medium fam. Medium trust if there is pain.

If she thinks it's just playing with privates and is unaware of any danger or the adult nature of it, it'll be a very easy step from rubbing genitals together to letting a boy push his penis inside her. She will need some assurances and coaxing in regards to the pain of loosing her virginity, but otherwise she'll be quite open to this activity, including the part where she gets semen inside her.

• Vaginal sex with condom: Medium trust and love with impregnation knowledge, Medium trust, fam, and friendliness without

Without knowing semen makes babies, she will think it's weird but would still ultimately accept it, although she would prefer without. With the knowledge, this will allow her to more easily accept sexual intercourse.

• Anal Sex: Low trust, medium sub and fam

• PIV sex while aware that it makes babies: High romantic love, medium sub and trust. (all lowered by one if she's in denial.)

The case here is identical to external ejaculation on her vulva. As mentioned with her view on PIV sex without the awareness sex makes babies, she doesn't really view there as being a lot of difference between having a penis rubbed on her vulva and in her slit, and having a penis pushing into her vagina.

Jan does not really want to get pregnant because she's somewhat aware it'd probably be a bad thing, but due to her immature brain she has a poor relationship between actions and consequences and as such it will not take a whole lot to help her get over this apprehension.

If she's already had semen inside or near her vagina by the time she discovers this information, there is a high chance depending on how she found out that she'll be in denial, which will make her more resistant than when she didn't know but not as resistant as when she's sure of the information or when she's protecting herself against even the first insemination.

• Intentionally impregnate her: High romantic love, medium sub and trust.

The likelihood of her accepting this really depends on your definition of "intentional impregnation." If defined as her being fully aware and oriented to the fact that having sex can make a baby, and that you are having sex with her with the intention of making that happen, then she would require some pretty high bars to clear to let her accept this... well, high bars relative to how open she would be about everything else to do with sex at any rate.

Her reaction to attempts to impregnate her would be about the same as would be expected from a girl her age, really not thinking it's a good idea and resistant to it, although it would be possible to lead her astray with strong enough persuasion.

Fetish sex acts

Peculiarities to her sexuality, including desires that do not have strictly to do with reproductive sex as well as what her response would be to physical or psychological force being used to perform a sex act with her. (Note: Relationship recommendations are not given at the beginning as these are things that simply manifest at the appropriate level of sex act. Feeding the fetish is more of a good approach than anything.)

• Results of physical force in sex acts:

• Results of psychological force in sex acts: (Using partner's submissiveness to demand sex even when they don't want it)