Difference between revisions of "Daycare manager/technical stuff 2/Bathroom"

Latest revision as of 18:53, 3 July 2020

NOTE: Early model, spitballing mechanics.

Currently populating list with all relevant considerations, next step is to begin narrowing down what will be used and how.

Relevant sex knowledges

Has heard

You shouldn't let other people touch your privates (+1 X age for exposure, touch, and relationship)

Has been taught

The physical difference between boys and girls (+1)
How some people will try to take sexual advantage of them (+1 relationship, +5 touch and exposure)
How to respond to someone doing something sexual to them (+2 relationship, +5 touch)
How to recognize someone trying to take sexual advantage of them (Relationship +1 X N) (Touch +1 X N/5) (Exposure +1 X N/10)

NOTE: (For the calculations in the items above, N=the number of sex acts you have performed with all children, max 100)

Has experienced

(Covered by case specific version)

Understands

The basic idea of sex. (+2 X age touch, +3 X age exposure, +5 X age relationship) (replaces "has heard you shouldn't let other people touch your privates")

Context specific experiences

Facility bathroom rules

Rules do not state children their age need help in bathroom (+10 X age relationship, unless they request help)
Rules state children their age need help in bathroom.
- 3-4 (-60 relationship, -10 exposure (applies to lowering pants only) -10 touch)
- 5-6 (-40 relationship, -10 exposure (applies to lowering pants only -5 touch)
- 7-8 (-20 relationship, -5 exposure)
- 9-10 (-5 exposure and Relationship +2 X number of known sex acts you've performed (max +60,) eliminated if you have had consensual sex with them or they are "resistance broken")
- 11+ (-5 exposure and Relationship +2 X number of known sex acts you've performed (max +60,) eliminated if you have had consensual sex with them or they are "resistance broken")

Age

Note: stacks with bathroom rules

3-4 (-10 relationship, -20 exposure, -10 touch)
5-6 (+0 relationship, -5 exposure, -5 touch)
7-8 (Relationship the greater of +20 or the vaginal sex calculation -60) (no modification to touch or exposure)
9-10 (Relationship Use vaginal sex calculation -40) (+5 touch)
11+ (Relationship Use vaginal sex calculation +10) (+5 touch)

Standard bathroom activity

Has been taken to the bathroom by you before (-2 relationship, -1 exposure)
Has been taken to the bathroom by you 10+ times (-10 relationship, -5 exposure) (Overwrites any other result if those 10+ times are consecutive)
Has gone to the bathroom by themselves at the facility before (+2 relationship, +1 exposure)
Usually goes to the bathroom at the facility themselves (+2 X age relationship, +5 exposure)

Previous sexual activity

(counts anything from sexual touching to vaginal intercourse)

Consensual (-10 relationship, -5 touch)
Consensual 3+ times (-20 relationship, -10 touch)
Non-consensual (+20 relationship, +5 touch)
Non-consensual 3+ times (+40, +5 touch)
Consensual in bathroom (-40 relationship, -20 touch)
Consensual in bathroom 3+ times (-60 relationship, eliminate touch requirement)
Non-consensual in bathroom (+40 relationship, +20 touch)
Non-consensual in bathroom 3+ times (+80 relationship, +10 touch)

(Use largest consensual or non-consensual number, if both apply then add the two together. For instance, you've had consensual sex with them in the bathroom 3+ times, but have raped them outside the bathroom 3+ times. This is -60 + 40. The sum of these two is -20.)

Kinds of activity

Innocent activity

NOTE: Assumes you've already overcome them letting you in with them in the first place.

In the same room (-60 relationship, -5 exposure)
Help on toilet (Relationship +10 X (age -5)) (Exposure +2 X (age -5)) (Touch +5 X (age -5)) (negative numbers possible, positive numbers eliminated if you've had consensual sex 5+ times)
Help wiping and/or help with pants/underpants (Relationship +20 X (age -4)) (Exposure +1 X (age -4)) (Touch (+10 X (age -4)) divided by number of times you've had consensual sex +1, max 5) (negative numbers possible, positive numbers eliminated if you've had consensual sex 5+ times)

Sexual activity

Touching
- Non-genital location (Touch +20)
- Genitals with toilet paper when not needed (Touch -10)
- Rubbing female vulva (Touch +20)
- Rubbing male penis (Touch +15)
- Rubbing inside female vagina (Touch +30)
MC's penis-out activity

NOTE: "in bathroom" activities over-write general (anywhere else) activities, and 3+ times overwrites the 1 or 2 times variation

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 NOTE: Early model, spitballing mechanics.
-==List of potentially relevant sex knowledges==
+Currently populating list with all relevant considerations, next step is to begin narrowing down what will be used and how.
+==Relevant sex knowledges==
 ===Has heard===
-*Boy's and Girl's privates are different
+*You shouldn't let other people touch your privates (+1 X age for exposure, touch, and relationship)
-*You shouldn't touch your privates in public (2)
-*You shouldn't let other people touch your privates (3)
-*You can let other people touch your privates if you are old enough (0)
-*A boy's privates can go inside the hole in the girl's privates
-*Putting a boy's penis inside it is what the hole in the girl's privates is for
-*Babies are made when mommies and daddies do something called "sex"
-*Sex is when the boy's penis goes inside the girl's vagina
-*Something white called semen can come out of a boy's penis
-*The semen comes out when the penis feels good
-*The semen is what makes babies when it gets in the girl's vagina
-*There are people who will have sex with you when you don't want them to
-===Has seen===
-*The opposite gender's genitals
-*Semen
-*Someone having sex (1 / 2 / 3) ^^
-*Someone being raped (2 / 4 / 6) ^^
-*Someone having oral sex ^^
-*Someone having anal sex ^^
-*Someone giving/receiving a hand-job ^^
 ===Has been taught===
-*The physical difference between boys and girls
+*The physical difference between boys and girls (+1)
-*The physical mechanics of sex (factual text-book knowledge)
+*How some people will try to take sexual advantage of them (+1 relationship, +5 touch and exposure)
-*The physical mechanics of sex (applicable knowledge) (2)
+*How to respond to someone doing something sexual to them (+2 relationship, +5 touch)
-*The biology of sex
+*How to recognize someone trying to take sexual advantage of them (Relationship +1 X N) (Touch +1 X N/5) (Exposure +1 X N/10)
-*How some people will try to take sexual advantage of them (3)
+:::NOTE: (For the calculations in the items above, N=the number of sex acts you have performed with all children, max 100)
-*How to respond to someone doing something sexual to them (2)
-*How to recognize someone trying to take sexual advantage of them
 ===Has experienced===
-*Vanilla sex (2)
+(Covered by case specific version)
-*Unwilling vanilla sex (2)^
-*Oral sex (receiving) (2)
-*Unwilling oral sex (receiving) (2)^
-*Oral sex (performing) (2)
-*Unwilling oral sex (performing) (2)^
-*Anal sex (receiving) (2)
-*Unwilling anal sex (receiving) (2)^
-*Anal sex (performing) (2)
-*Unwilling anal sex (performing) (2)^
-*Touching someone else's genitals (2)
-*Forced to touch someone else's genitals (2)
-*Having own genitals sexually stimulated by someone else's hand (2)
-*Unwanted touching of their genitals by someone else (2)
-*An orgasm
-*Being ejaculated on
-*A semen filled vagina (girls only)
 ===Understands===
-*The basic idea of sex. (allows them to have the ability to process that there is something significant to the penis going into the vagina and how this can make a baby even if they don't know exactly how the biology works.) (5)
+*The basic idea of sex. (+2 X age touch, +3 X age exposure, +5 X age relationship) (replaces "has heard you shouldn't let other people touch your privates")
-*How to perform sexually (3)
-*The full biological basis behind sex (2)
-*How to avoid being taken advantage of sexually (5)
-*The emotional complexities attached to sex (10)
-*How to consent to sex (Understands everything about why to refuse sex, and thus can make the informed decision to consent to sex as well) (5)
 ==Context specific experiences==
+===Facility bathroom rules===
+*Rules do not state children their age need help in bathroom (+10 X age relationship, unless they request help)
+*Rules state children their age need help in bathroom.
+**3-4 (-60 relationship, -10 exposure (applies to lowering pants only) -10 touch)
+**5-6 (-40 relationship, -10 exposure (applies to lowering pants only -5 touch)
+**7-8 (-20 relationship, -5 exposure)
+**9-10 (-5 exposure and Relationship +2 X number of known sex acts you've performed (max +60,) eliminated if you have had consensual sex with them or they are "resistance broken")
+**11+ (-5 exposure and Relationship +2 X number of known sex acts you've performed (max +60,) eliminated if you have had consensual sex with them or they are "resistance broken")
+===Age===
+:Note: stacks with bathroom rules
+*3-4 (-10 relationship, -20 exposure, -10 touch)
+*5-6 (+0 relationship, -5 exposure, -5 touch)
+*7-8 (Relationship the greater of +20 or the vaginal sex calculation -60) (no modification to touch or exposure)
+*9-10 (Relationship Use vaginal sex calculation -40) (+5 touch)
+*11+ (Relationship Use vaginal sex calculation +10) (+5 touch)
+===Standard bathroom activity===
+*Has been taken to the bathroom by you before (-2 relationship, -1 exposure)
+*Has been taken to the bathroom by you 10+ times (-10 relationship, -5 exposure) (Overwrites any other result if those 10+ times are consecutive)
+*Has gone to the bathroom by themselves at the facility before (+2 relationship, +1 exposure)
+*Usually goes to the bathroom at the facility themselves (+2 X age relationship, +5 exposure)
+===Previous sexual activity===
+(counts anything from sexual touching to vaginal intercourse)
+*Consensual (-10 relationship, -5 touch)
+*Consensual 3+ times (-20 relationship, -10 touch)
+*Non-consensual (+20 relationship, +5 touch)
+*Non-consensual 3+ times (+40, +5 touch)
+*Consensual in bathroom (-40 relationship, -20 touch)
+*Consensual in bathroom 3+ times (-60 relationship, eliminate touch requirement)
+*Non-consensual in bathroom (+40 relationship, +20 touch)
+*Non-consensual in bathroom 3+ times (+80 relationship, +10 touch)
+(Use largest consensual or non-consensual number, if both apply then add the two together. For instance, you've had consensual sex with them in the bathroom 3+ times, but have raped them outside the bathroom 3+ times. This is -60 + 40. The sum of these two is -20.)
+==Kinds of activity==
+===Innocent activity===
+NOTE: Assumes you've already overcome them letting you in with them in the first place.
+*In the same room (-60 relationship, -5 exposure)
+*Help on toilet (Relationship +10 X (age -5)) (Exposure +2 X (age -5)) (Touch +5 X (age -5)) (negative numbers possible, positive numbers eliminated if you've had consensual sex 5+ times)
+*Help wiping and/or help with pants/underpants (Relationship +20 X (age -4)) (Exposure +1 X (age -4)) (Touch (+10 X (age -4)) divided by number of times you've had consensual sex +1, max 5) (negative numbers possible, positive numbers eliminated if you've had consensual sex 5+ times)
-*
+===Sexual activity===
+*Touching
+** Non-genital location (Touch +20)
+** Genitals with toilet paper when not needed (Touch -10)
+** Rubbing female vulva (Touch +20)
+** Rubbing male penis (Touch +15)
+** Rubbing inside female vagina (Touch +30)
+*[[Daycare manager/technical stuff 2/penis-out activity|MC's penis-out activity]]
-WIP
+NOTE: "in bathroom" activities over-write general (anywhere else) activities, and 3+ times overwrites the 1 or 2 times variation
-[[Category:Daycare manager/technical stuff 2/Bathroom]]
+[[Category:Daycare manager|technical stuff 2/Bathroom]]