Life Hacks/Consent minimums

Unless the individual is a sexual deviant who likes sex with people they don't know, these numbers are the minimum necessary for the individual in question to give 100% consent to a particular sex act or gesture of affection. As noted before, sex and romance are not associated in a child's mind. The numbers given here are the applicable value, not the romance value.

This guide lists the lowest un-modified score in the primary relationship stat necessary to gain your partner's consent, but this is only in cases where the person you are performing this sex act with was not even thinking about doing this sex act before you brought it up. It is an entirely different story if they are the ones who initiate a sex act. Anyone can initiate a sex act with you even if your relationship score with them in the appropriate area is 0.

Benign sex acts

Activities that can easily be construed as non-sexual and dismissed both by the person the act is being performed on and also by any on-lookers. It only counts as a sex act because the person performing it gets aroused by it.

Note: Platonic or familial love scores can be substituted for romantic love scores in this category.

• Hold their hand:(5)
• Play with their hair:(8)
• Hugging (8)
• Pick them up off the ground:(10)
• Have them sit in your lap:(12)
• Hold possessively(12)
• Kiss cheeks or forehead:(15)
• Kiss their hand(20)

Dismissable sex acts

Activities that can just as easily be taken as sexual or non-sexual. If the person this act is being performed on takes it as non-sexual, it is regarded as 10 points lower than what is listed and familial love can be substituted for romantic love. (familal love by itself does not act as a substitute if they interpret the act as sexual)

• Be shirtless around them:(20)
• See them in their pajamas:(20)
• Oggle their clothed groin or breasts:(25)
• Press into breasts while hugging:(25)
• Convince a male to go shirtless around you:(25)
• Fondle fully clothed ass while hugging or other such activity:(30)
• Change cloths in presence of each other, not going naked (30)
• Make sexually charged or sexually related banter with each other(30)
• Wear only shirt and underwear around them(35)
• Convince a pre-pubescent girl to go shirtless around you(35)
• Fondle girl's ass under her skirt(40)
• "Secretly" dry-hump leg, hip, or ass (either direction)(40)
• Same gender change clothes while exposing bare genitals in presence of each other (must be regarded as non-sexual): (45/20)* (Note: Score differs depending on whether or not there is an existing romance score. 20 if romance score is zero, 45 if there is an existing romance score, 35 if there is a romance score but the act is regarded as non-sexual.)
• Opposite gender change cloths while exposing bare genitals in presence of each other (must be regarded as non-sexual):(50)* (40 after it is regarded as non-sexual.)

Mild sex acts

Acts that most would consider inappropriate unless you are in a romantic relationship, but most would not actually consider to be "sex." No other score may be substituted for romantic love except via the submission method.

• Kiss on lips (30) (Note: Can be regarded as non-sexual in some families and have platonic love points substitute if raised in this way.)
• French Kiss (40)
• Grope breasts and/or genitals (50 X body shame)
• Change cloths, including underwear, in the same space as each other (50 X body shame)
• Use toilet with other present in bathroom(55 X body shame)
• Reference or discuss moderate or hard-core sex with each other(55)
• Sexting (60)
• Crotch to crotch clothed dry-humping(60)
• Show privates to each other for no reason other than to just look(60 X body shame)
• Be casually naked with one another(60 X body shame)

Moderate sex acts

Sex acts that most would consider sex, but would not get the "hard-core" label if filmed and put on a porn site.

• Touch each other's bare genitals with hand(65)
• Masturbate partner to orgasm(67)
• Ejaculate on partner's body, not near an orifice(70)
• Receive oral sex(70)
• Rub bare genitals together(75)
• Give oral sex(80)
• Ejaculate on female partner's vulva(80)* Will not consent if worried about and avoiding pregnancy

Hard-core sex acts

Sex acts that involve semen and/or the penis going into a vagina or anus

• Vaginal sex with girl with no prior concept of sex: (70)
• All homosexual sex(80)
• Pushing semen from elsewhere into vagina with fingers(80)* Will not consent if worried about and avoiding pregnancy
• Vaginal sex with condom(85)
• Ejaculate into spread open vagina, no insertion(85)* Will not consent if worried about and avoiding pregnancy
• Bare-back vaginal sex, promising to pull out(90)
• Bare-back vaginal sex, finishing inside(95)* Will not consent if worried about and avoiding pregnancy
• Fetish or taboo sex that does not align with partner's interests(100)* Also requires that the partner be submissive or persuadable with a reasoned argument or appeal.