Life Hacks/May's sexuality

This is the new format for showing what the individual character's reaction will be to sexual advances with them depending on their sexual history, sexual knowledge, sexual quirks, and their relationship with you. It contains some of the information from the old system, and also goes into detail about how they might react to individual sex acts giving various ways you might approach them. Please note that there will always be a chance they might reject you regardless of relationship score depending on your approach and their mood at the time due to other factors. Also note that the scores say a "recommended" relationship score before pursuing a sex act. It is possible to get them to agree with a lower score if you use the best approach (especially if you have high social skills.)

Sexual history

May has entered into precocious puberty, but has not yet hit menarche. In fact, as of the start of the story, she is ovulating her first egg and if she has sex then she will get pregnant having skipped her first period.

Due to her early puberty, May has just recently started to get a crush on older boys, but she does not think of this in terms of anything sexual. She really doesn't have much of a concept of sex at all, and has not even thought about the idea of a boy's penis touching her pussy. However, she has found herself becoming more and more thrilled about her younger siblings' "game" of going out to the woods behind their house and watching each other pee. She has recently become a lot more eager to join in and is even becoming a little dissatisfied it does not progress much beyond just peeing. She knows she wants something more, but she is not sure what. She has begun having her brothers come very close to her as she pees like this, and trying to join their urine streams, they wind up having to get their penis within 6 inches of her young pussy to accomplish this since she is squatting while this is happening. This excites her a lot more than just peeing. She has not consciously admitted yet that she wants their penis to touch her there, but on the subconscious primal level that is very much the goal.

While she does not think of her older male crushes in terms of anything to do with sex or even what she does outside with her younger siblings, she does have a crush on and thus mild romantic feelings for just about any older male that shows her positive attention, including family members. She has envisioned herself getting married to her dad, her older brother, Xander, and one of her Sunday school teachers at the church (not in her actual class at the catholic school, since her teacher is a woman.)

May remembers from a few years back when Octo was 3 that Jan and Febby used to strip him and play with his little penis while she watched in awe. She has debated doing the same thing to Octo now, but does not want to possibly get in trouble for it.

Sexual Knowledge

May has no knowledge what so ever about the actual act of sex, despite knowing that babies come from mommy's belly. She thinks women simply start spontaneously getting pregnant once they are married, and doesn't really think about why boys and girls are different down there. All she knows is that she starts to feel excited when a boy's penis gets close to her privates.

• Knows what male genitals look like?: Yes
• Knows how babies are made?: Sort of
• Knows what sex is?: No
• Knows what semen is?: No

General recommended approaches

Despite May's sudden boldness in her siblings' "peeing game," her sexuality is also starting to develop along with the concept that certain things are a little inappropriate. As such, a more gradual approach would be necessary with her generally. She will be a little more hesitant to the idea of just telling her the penis is supposed to go in her vagina and then getting her to do it.

Despite this, the most effective way to get May to open up sexually if you have lower relationship stats with her is actually borderline rape under the exact right conditions. You would need to get brought into the "club" by someone else, have her ask you to join your urine stream with hers, actually go farther with it than she's asking by touching your dick to her slit somewhere before, after, or during the process and start fooling around like that, and then shoving her down (or convincing her to lay back so you can rub your penis on her more) and sticking it in, all without actually telling her your intentions or explaining anything about what to expect. If you do it under these exact conditions, she will find she actually enjoys it and get into it, and then will be very at ease with almost anything else sexual you try to do with her. Short this exact method though, she will be the most resistant to sexual activity out of the group. If she knows anything about the concept of penises going into a girl's vagina she will be more guarded to this sequence of events and it will not have the same kind of good results.

If you have very high trust with May, she ultimately wants to do all sorts of sexual things but is limited by her social concerns. If you have very high trust then it will be high enough for her to place the responsibility on you if you "give her permission" to do something that would normally be not allowed. She may resist for a moment, but after insistently telling her it's alright she will consent to absolutely anything so long as she does not know about the impregnation consequences. If she does, then she will need high romantic love scores as well.

(Note: May will be experiencing her first ovulation at the start of the story, and is weak to her hormones. If you start up some form of gradual foreplay or other forms of sexual activity with her such as bringing the typical peeing game a little farther than normal, she will likely get lost and accept anything you do with her so long as she accepted the first thing you did.)

Recommended approaches and relationship levels for specific acts

A list of specific sex acts including details on how she views them, witch approaches are likely to work with her, and witch approaches are least likely to work. It also notes witch relationship stat is most influential in getting her to perform this act, as well as whether it needs to be high or low. As stated before, it is always possible for them to refuse depending on circumstances even if your score is high enough, and with just the right approach it is also possible to get them to allow a certain sex act even if the score is lower than the noted recommendation.

For the sake of giving people attempting to interpret these slippery "high, low, medium" type ratings a little grounding, here are the definitions used and the range of stats the rating could be referring to. Please note the bleed over with the above and below categories. This is to reflect the level of wiggle room a writer has in interpreting a stats score in the game, and also so that the writer does not have to really stress about the exact numbers.

• Non-existent = approximately 0-10% (you are not going to see this designation appearing much.)
• Very low = approximately 5-20%
• Low = approximately 10-40%
• Medium = approximately 30-70%
• High = approximately 60-90%
• Very high = approximately 80-95%
• Extreme = approximately 90-100%

As a final note, submissiveness can always act as a wild card. Unless submissiveness is actually specified as one of several stats that are looked at for that act, submissiveness can replace any 1 score listed so long as it is high enough relative to the recommendation. This will be judged as an act of psychological dominance, witch is listed under fetishes farther down. Each person will react a little bit differently to being psychologically dominated, so it may be a good idea to reference this section before counting on this tactic.

Benign sex acts

Acts such as hand-holding, hugging, and having her sit in your lap. Things that are more or less non-sexual, but can be construed in a sexual way to some extent.

May has a slight crush on Xander, but then that goes the same for every male who is older than her in her life so that does not buy you much with her. This is also balanced by her raising sense of boundaries. If you have a little bit of trust with her though (low trust,) she will allow you to do these things, and with a medium level of trust combined with a medium romantic love score she will let you get pretty into it to a level that is borderline inappropriate.

Dismissable sex acts

Acts that can just as easily be seen as sexual as they can non-sexual or unintentional. Examples include holding her ass, being shirtless around one another, or oggling her crotch.

• Be shirtless around her: Non-existent trust

You are her brother's friend, so she would have nothing to say about this.

• Comfortable around you in her pajamas: Non-existent trust

She is used to you generally being around, and also does not see being in her Pjs as something to be private about.

• Oggle her clothed groin or breasts: Low trust and friendliness

This will make her a little self-conscious since she has begun to associate her privates with sexuality a little.

• "Accidentally" oggle her bare groin or breasts: High trust (low if introduced to the peeing game.)

Her reaction to this will be completely different depending on whether or not you have been introduced to the peeing game. She will instinctively hide herself if you have not, but if you have been introduced then if nobody else is around she might give you a knowing smile and go on to do other things depending on the situation.

• Fondle her fully clothed ass while hugging or other such activity: Low trust

She will not have developed in her sexuality enough to register this as something she should be instantly revolted over, but by the time it does register she will likely have started enjoying it.

• Change cloths in presence of each other, not going naked: Medium trust

The Holiday kids are not supposed to do any co-ed changing of cloths, but if it is not stripping naked then she might not personally see this as something there is a major problem with since you are more or less part of the family.

• Make sexually charged or sexually related banter with each other: High trust and previous experience

She is not very certain about this subject, having only recently started experimenting with it, and she doesn't know a lot about sex anyway. However, once you have done something with her, her biggest hold back will be the nervousness she might be overheard. If this is not a risk, she might be convinced into participating in this activity.

• Wear only shirt and underwear around her Low romantic love

Considering her slight crush on you and developing sexuality, this might get her interested in seeing more.

• "Secretly" dry-hump leg, hip, or ass (either direction): Medium trust and friendliness

This will get May a little uncomfortable if you are the one doing it to her, but if you get her doing it to you she will still feel it is inappropriate but she will enjoy it. If you give her an excuse not to worry about it she will enjoy doing it.

Mild sex acts

Acts that would not be regarded as sex but cannot be seen as anything but sexual, such as kissing, groping, dry-humping, or revealing privates.

• Kissing: Medium trust

May will likely not expect for you to kiss her. If you do, then it will surprise her and throw her mind into a loop as she tries to process it, and it will cause her to become a lot more submissive to anything else you do and any act she submits to will be counted as though it was achieved through romantic love.

• Grope breasts and/or genitals over cloths: Medium trust and submissiveness

This will raise a concern from May regardless of the conditions under witch you do it, however she is likely to uncomfortably allow it under all scenarios. If you have not done anything sexual with her before, she will get very stiff and likely not say anything for a while, likely eventually uttering that you are not supposed to do that. She will seem as though she does not like it and wants you to stop, but if you continue after she says this she will actually start to relax a bit and seem like she is enjoying it more. She will be more at peace with the idea if she has done her part and said you shouldn't be doing this, but keep going anyway. If it is done with observers, she will look about for their reaction to what you are doing. If you have already done something sexual with her, she will be a little bit looser and likely be quicker to state that you are not supposed to do that. If it is done with the "peeing game" group, unless she is highly submissive she will likely bat your hand away and then begin taking her pants off to pee as though it never happened. (Only medium submissiveness required to get a different reaction if you have caused her to orgasm under some set of circumstances.)

• Show privates to each other for no reason other than to just look: High trust (Very low trust if part of the peeing game)

May is strongly of the opinion that this sort of thing is inappropriate, but she wants to do it anyway. As such, she needs someone she trusts a great deal (and some submissiveness helps too) to give her a form of permission to reveal her privates to another person. The peeing game Via her younger brother August is one thing that fills this purpose. In order for you to fill this purpose yourself though, she would have to trust you personally a great deal.

If it is part of the peeing game, she only needs to see that you do not plan to get them in trouble for what they are doing. Once she trusts you that far, she will go about all her usual activities, but will be a little cold toward you and gravitate preferentially toward her siblings if you do not at least have a medium level of trust with her.

• Use toilet with other present in bathroom: Very high submissiveness

To May, you being in the bathroom with her and you watching her pee outside are two completely different things. She will be strongly against you coming in the bathroom with her unless she is submissive enough to you for you to flat out demand it of her. After getting in, she will be a little bit stiff and will need some encouragement to start thinking of this as no different from the peeing game. (She will have a somewhat easier time with it if some of the other kids from the game are with her in the bathroom in addition to you. 2 or 3 of them for optimum results.)

• Reference or discuss moderate or hard-core sex with each other: Medium trust

She will meet any comment on what adults do with their privates with initial disbelief, but with enough insistence she can be won over. Simply discussing the act before hand, especially if you are participating in a lower intensity sex act with her already, will make her more accepting of it if you follow up talk with action.

• Crotch to crotch clothed dry-humping: Medium friendliness.

While she has made the association that nudity and touching with a hand are both taboo, so long as her cloths are on she will have far less of an issue with rubbing her crotch on your leg, arm, or even your groin. She simply has yet to build the association that this is in the same category as touching with the hand.

• Be casually naked with one another: Medium trust and submissiveness.

Convincing her to take her cloths off in the first place is the only hard part. Once you get that down, she will have far less of a problem with keeping them off for a while. The lowest relationship stats this can be accomplished with is via the peeing game. For anything else, use the score requirements for another act higher on the list that seems the most appropriate.

Moderate sex acts

Sex acts that most would consider sex, but would not get the "hard-core" label if filmed and put on a porn site.

• Touch each other's bare genitals with hand

• Rub your bare genitals together:

• Masturbate partner to orgasm

• Ejaculate on her body, anywhere between her stomach and her knees, while she is not aware semen makes babies:

• Ejaculate on her head, hair, chest, or face:

• Ejaculate on or near her groin while she is aware semen makes babies:

• Perform oral sex on her:

• Have her perform oral sex on you:

Hard-core sex acts

Sex acts that involve semen and/or the penis going into a vagina or anus.

• Girl on girl homosexual sex:

• PIV sex while she is ignorant to its role in impregnation:

• Vaginal sex with condom

• Anal Sex

• PIV sex while aware that it makes babies:

• Intentionally impregnate her:

Fetish sex acts

Peculiarities to her sexuality, including desires that do not have strictly to do with reproductive sex as well as what her response would be to physical or psychological force being used to perform a sex act with her. (Note: Relationship recommendations are not given at the beginning as these are things that simply manifest at the appropriate level of sex act. Feeding the fetish is more of a good approach than anything.)

• Semi-consensual sex

May will not like the idea of simply being pushed into sex against her will, but on some level she actually does want to explore her body more and do naughty things but just doesn't have the will to defy her parents. For this, she will like having someone push her just a little farther than she is comfortable with, and who keeps going anyway when she suggests that you might get in trouble and you are not supposed to be doing what you are doing. It is less that she likes the idea of being taken against her will and more that she wants someone to push her will and brow-bead consent out of her.

• Peeing

As May is just hitting early puberty, she is dealing with strange urges that she can't explain. A primal urge that demands that she have a boy squirt something out of his penis and into her vagina. Since she does not know about semen, and the idea of a boy sticking their penis inside of her is pushing things a bit, this culminates in her wanting a boy to pee on her vulva. If you pee on her slit, she will be very pleased and this will easily open her up to allow more. She can be made to accept semen the same way she does pee, but she will be more comfortable with the idea of getting her crotch peed on than ejaculated on since she is more familiar with pee and semen is something completely new to her.

• Results of physical force in sex acts:

The use of physical force to overcome active resistance from May will result in a true lack of consent resulting in it being considered rape or sexual assault. May's reaction to being rapped will be to provide mild continued physical resistance and whining for you to stop, but she is not likely to shout for help and will even avoid making enough noise to attract attention out of concern for the both of you getting in trouble. Even mid rape, she will not want for you to get in trouble with her parents or older siblings.

• Results of psychological force in sex acts: (Using partner's submissiveness to demand sex even when they don't want it)

The only form of psychological manipulation May will accept is for you to ignore her pleas for you to stop while saying something along the lines of "it's Ok." Any more harsh demands than that will scare her and cause her to provide physical resistance and even possibly start crying as you proceed to rape her.