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Final note: Submissiveness is a wild card for achieving non-resistance to a sex act. However, non-resistance does not mean they will like it. | Final note: Submissiveness is a wild card for achieving non-resistance to a sex act. However, non-resistance does not mean they will like it. | ||
==Benign sex acts== | |||
Acts such as hand-holding, hugging, and having her sit in your lap. Things that are more or less non-sexual, but can be construed in a sexual way to some extent. | Acts such as hand-holding, hugging, and having her sit in your lap. Things that are more or less non-sexual, but can be construed in a sexual way to some extent. | ||
Roni has no real problem with Xander doing anything like this with her. | Roni has no real problem with Xander doing anything like this with her. | ||
==Dismissable sex acts== | |||
Acts that can just as easily be seen as sexual as they can non-sexual or unintentional. Examples include holding her ass under her skirt, being shirtless around one another, or oggling her crotch. | Acts that can just as easily be seen as sexual as they can non-sexual or unintentional. Examples include holding her ass under her skirt, being shirtless around one another, or oggling her crotch. | ||
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Best approach, have only the two of you in a closed room together with no expectation of interruption. An Ok approach would be to have a number of people present, 100% of whom say it is fine. She will be doubtful and nervous in such a situation, but can be convinced. The worst approach witch will have negative impacts on her trust is to push for this in an area where there is an unacceptable risk of discovery, and there will be disastrous results if you cause the discovery risk to somehow become even higher, especially if you actually do get discovered. | Best approach, have only the two of you in a closed room together with no expectation of interruption. An Ok approach would be to have a number of people present, 100% of whom say it is fine. She will be doubtful and nervous in such a situation, but can be convinced. The worst approach witch will have negative impacts on her trust is to push for this in an area where there is an unacceptable risk of discovery, and there will be disastrous results if you cause the discovery risk to somehow become even higher, especially if you actually do get discovered. | ||
==Moderate sex acts== | |||
Sex acts that most would consider sex, but would not get the "hard-core" label if filmed and put on a porn site. | Sex acts that most would consider sex, but would not get the "hard-core" label if filmed and put on a porn site. | ||
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The best approach would be to have her get the endorsement of another woman, especially if she does it first and tells her how good you taste (especially since Xander, if he maxes out his fertility, will have semen that tastes a lot better than the average guy.) This will almost instantly melt any resistance she might have. The next best approach would be to somehow convince her semen is fine to have in her mouth, especially if she tastes Xander's cum after it has been squirted elsewhere. Simply demanding she do it will most likely result in a flat refusal unless she has a high submissiveness stat. She will not like being psychologically dominated into it, but if Xander's fertility is maxed out and he tastes good then she might forgive it the same way she would being forced to eat a food she was skeptical about. | The best approach would be to have her get the endorsement of another woman, especially if she does it first and tells her how good you taste (especially since Xander, if he maxes out his fertility, will have semen that tastes a lot better than the average guy.) This will almost instantly melt any resistance she might have. The next best approach would be to somehow convince her semen is fine to have in her mouth, especially if she tastes Xander's cum after it has been squirted elsewhere. Simply demanding she do it will most likely result in a flat refusal unless she has a high submissiveness stat. She will not like being psychologically dominated into it, but if Xander's fertility is maxed out and he tastes good then she might forgive it the same way she would being forced to eat a food she was skeptical about. | ||
==Hard-core sex acts== | |||
Sex acts that involve semen and/or the penis going into a vagina or anus. | Sex acts that involve semen and/or the penis going into a vagina or anus. | ||
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Roni would need a lot of slow and deliberate warming up to this idea. If her submissiveness is at or near max then she could simply have getting pregnant demanded of her, but she will not like the idea at all. If she winds up getting pregnant while she did not know PIV sex made babies and finds it out afterwards she will feel very hurt and betrayed by Xander, witch will bottom out her trust and give a severe hit to her other relationship scores. | Roni would need a lot of slow and deliberate warming up to this idea. If her submissiveness is at or near max then she could simply have getting pregnant demanded of her, but she will not like the idea at all. If she winds up getting pregnant while she did not know PIV sex made babies and finds it out afterwards she will feel very hurt and betrayed by Xander, witch will bottom out her trust and give a severe hit to her other relationship scores. | ||
==Fetish sex acts== | |||
Peculiarities to Roni's sexuality, including desires that do not have strictly to do with reproductive sex as well as what her response would be to physical or psychological force being used to perform a sex act with her. (Note: Relationship recommendations are not given at the beginning as these are things that simply manifest at the appropriate level of sex act. Feeding the fetish is more of a good approach than anything.) | Peculiarities to Roni's sexuality, including desires that do not have strictly to do with reproductive sex as well as what her response would be to physical or psychological force being used to perform a sex act with her. (Note: Relationship recommendations are not given at the beginning as these are things that simply manifest at the appropriate level of sex act. Feeding the fetish is more of a good approach than anything.) | ||
Revision as of 03:54, 11 April 2017
While the above can help you to predict how she might react to sex generally, below is how she will react to specific acts.
At the heading of each act, there will be a recommendation on witch relationship stat(s) will be most effective in getting her to lower her guard against this specific sex act if they cross a certain threshold. This threshold will be given a "low/medium/high" rating rather than a specific number. Although, there is a rough number each rating is meant to represent, as outlined by the table below.
- Non-existent = approximately 0-10% (you are not going to see this designation appearing much.)
- Very low = approximately 5-20%
- Low = approximately 10-40%
- Medium = approximately 30-70%
- High = approximately 60-90%
- Very high = approximately 80-95%
- Extreme = approximately 90-100%
Note: The categories do overlap. This is to represent the wiggle room given to the writer in a case by case basis in interpreting their current score. Also, it is entirely possible to achieve consent for a sex act while falling short of the threshold with exactly the right approach, and it is also possible to have them reject you while you have far exceeded the threshold with the wrong approach.
Final note: Submissiveness is a wild card for achieving non-resistance to a sex act. However, non-resistance does not mean they will like it.
Benign sex acts
Acts such as hand-holding, hugging, and having her sit in your lap. Things that are more or less non-sexual, but can be construed in a sexual way to some extent.
Roni has no real problem with Xander doing anything like this with her.
Dismissable sex acts
Acts that can just as easily be seen as sexual as they can non-sexual or unintentional. Examples include holding her ass under her skirt, being shirtless around one another, or oggling her crotch.
Roni has no problem with Xander doing anything like this with her, and will likely take it completely as no big deal even if she did construe it sexually.
Mild sex acts
Acts that would not be regarded as sex but cannot be seen as anything but sexual, such as kissing, groping, dry-humping, or revealing privates.
Roni would have a range of reactions to specific situations under this heading.
- Kissing: High romance recommended.
Kissing might actually be the one act down this line Roni would be the most opposed to. Due to her sexual history with Charity, she does not regard sex or sexual touching as having anything to do with romance, but kissing most certainly does, and she is freaked out about the idea of being romantic with a family member. She would have to be approached slowly and gradually with this idea.
The best approach would be to softly bring up the idea of being romantically interested in her and give her a few days to digest the concept before attempting to kiss her. Another option would be to just suddenly kiss her out of nowhere and play it off as a joke, getting her used to the idea of kissing while somewhat dissociating it from the idea of romance. However, this will not work for long and she will quickly begin to doubt it is all just a joke, but it is still better than the worst option. The worst approach would be to bring up the idea of a romantic relationship and then attempt to kiss her the same day, or in the same conversation.
- Grope breasts and/or genitals over cloths: Recommend low levels of trust
Roni is actually used to having her bare genitals touched by Charity, so she would think doing it over cloths is just silly and likely get tired of it fast. She will allow it for almost anyone she has even a mild relationship with, but won't let it continue for long without escalating.
- Show privates to each other for no reason other than to just look: Recommend low levels of trust
Roni would see relatively little problem with showing her privates to any of her male friends who she doesn't think would tell their parents if they are curious what a girl looks like, but it would be a little more difficult with Xander since she sees him as an authority figure who she would get in trouble with. In Xander's case, see the write up for touching bare genitals under "moderate sex acts." Just about all the same things would apply with the exception of the required trust score being lower.
- Use toilet with other present in bathroom: Recommend medium levels of trust
To Roni, the bathroom is the place where her sexual games with Charity happen. As such, someone being in the bathroom with her while using it would have a heavy association with that as a potential escalation, meaning she needs to trust you enough to go to that escalation before she will use the bathroom with you.
- Reference or discuss moderate or hard-core sex with each other: Based on trust and friendliness, reactions based on level.
Roni has no real knowledge about higher intensity sex acts other than groping bare genitals. Roni's reaction is based on trust and friendliness. If levels are very low she will likely be disturbed and want to get away. If they are moderate she will be interested in the information she is hearing. If the levels are high then she will likely wind up wanting to try the actions being discussed.
The best reactions can be gotten if you have already revealed to Roni you want to do those sorts of things with her, and the best way to do this is by having already touched her groin in an obviously sexual way, especially without panties. If she still regards you as an authority figure, she will not necessarily be put off but she will be uncomfortable, most of that discomfort will come from the fact that she is interested in hearing about this but is afraid of what will happen if she shows too much interest. (this will also close off the option of her wanting to try the discussed things with you.)
- Crotch to crotch clothed dry-humping: Recommend medium friendship and low trust.
Roni is not likely to understand this as sexual unless the cloths are off. As such, she will just regard it as something a little weird the other person is doing. She won't think much of the action of rubbing crotches together in and of itself, but the act of getting that close to her body to body is another story entirely. The most likely way to do this is through wrestling, witch is something she will need to be somewhat friendly with you in order for the opportunity to do this to arise.
The best way to achieve this is in the middle of wrestling, witch will yeild the above results. Asking her permission to rub your crotches together will be taken the same exact way as asking to do it without cloths, and one way or another she will not allow it. She will either want to do it naked if she is comfortable with you enough to do that, or not at all if she is not comfortable enough to do it naked.
- Be casually naked with one another: Recommend low levels of trust and/or friendliness, and confidence she won't get caught.
Roni is rather adventerous when it comes to exposing her body, so the big hang-up for this is the fear that someone who would disapprove might find out. She will need to trust you just enough to be sure you won't cause her to get in trouble, but after that the only thing she needs to be convincable is knowing no disapproving authority figure or someone who might tell such an authority figure will find out.
Best approach, have only the two of you in a closed room together with no expectation of interruption. An Ok approach would be to have a number of people present, 100% of whom say it is fine. She will be doubtful and nervous in such a situation, but can be convinced. The worst approach witch will have negative impacts on her trust is to push for this in an area where there is an unacceptable risk of discovery, and there will be disastrous results if you cause the discovery risk to somehow become even higher, especially if you actually do get discovered.
Moderate sex acts
Sex acts that most would consider sex, but would not get the "hard-core" label if filmed and put on a porn site.
- Touch each other's bare genitals with hand Recommend medium levels of trust.
Roni is actually quite used to the idea of having an older sibling, in the form of Charity, touching her genitals. She also wouldn't much mind the idea of touching a sibling's genitals, as she has done this with Charity a lot as well but is bored of the fact that Charity only has the same stuff she does. She kind of wants to touch Bastian's penis again like back when she was 4 and will be excited at the idea if Xander gives her the option to do it with him.
The best approach is to do this in a park family bathroom or some other bathroom where it does not seem you are likely to be disturbed. She will also respond just as well to being asked to a private area and then subsequently asked to touch her genitals. Another good option is to tell her she does not have to wear her panties and then ask permission to touch her genitals while that area of her anatomy is already the subject of conversation. Simply touching them while carrying her will cause her some concern, especially if it is in public, but she will not complain. The worst approach is to simply grab her and start touching or demand it without waiting for permission while she is in her own room or otherwise minding her own business, but even then she will just be a bit annoyed. The only disastrous means by witch to approach this act is to do it in public, witch is something she really would not like.
- Rub your bare genitals together: Recommend medium levels of trust and/or friendliness
Roni would not see much difference between having a penis rubbed on her vulva Vs. a finger. As such, if she will consent to having her genitals touched with a hand, she will consent to having them touched with a penis.
- Masturbate partner to orgasm Recommend medium or high levels of trust.
Roni has actually not been masturbated to orgasm by Charity before. She is just as likely to allow it as touching her genitals, but she will probably get scared as it is actually happening. She will allow it to happen if your trust levels with her are medium, but she will feel more comfortable if they are higher and her reaction afterward will be better as a result.
The best approach is to have another woman tell her it is something safe that feels good, and an Ok approach is to have you as a male explain the same thing. Simply doing it with permission to touch her but not warning her of what to expect her body's reaction to be will get her a bit annoyed, and doing it under any condition she would not have been too enthusiastic to let herself be touched will get her even more scared as it is happening and very angry after the fact.
- Ejaculate on her body, anywhere between her stomach and her knees, while she is not aware semen makes babies:Recommend medium or high levels of trust, and medium in friendliness and/or familial love.
As a result of Roni's slight urine fetish due to her early experiences with watching others pee and them watching her pee, she would not have all that big a problem with another fluid coming out of your penis and hitting her anywhere she would be Ok with you peeing on, that being the bottom of her rib cage to the top of her knees as those are areas she would have an easier time cleaning up with toilet paper afterward, and it is away from her face and hair witch she will be a bit more annoyed with both in terms of semen and urine.
If you do not have access to something to clean up with, she will prefer it all go between her legs, usually when she is in a position that will make most of the drips wind up on the ground, so that way her skirt and socks do not get wet.
The best approach is to tell her your penis can make something other than just pee and you want to shoot it on her, and an Ok approach is to just do it without warning her. So long as it does not get on her face and she has a chance to clean up, she is more likely to get curious than annoyed. If your trust levels are medium, this actually might be the better method using an "easier to seek forgiveness than permission" approach. She will accept most scenarios so long as she has time to either clean up or rub it in. She will be annoyed if you get it on her clothing though, especially if she does not have access to a change of cloths.
- Ejaculate on her head, hair, chest, or face: Recommend high levels of trust and friendship and/or familial love
Roni will generally think about semen in a similar way to how she would pee. As such, she does not really want it on her face or hair and might be a little disturbed by it being on her chest. If your relationship levels with her are high enough though, she can be shifted from this position and convinced they are not the same.
The best approaches are either to have it taken for a complete accident that it got on her face or head, or to convince her ahead of time that it is different from pee and won't hurt her. Seeing another person being fine with it being on their face may also calm her to the idea. Without these things in place, intentionally aiming for her face will get her annoyed with you, but not so much as to reduce relationship scores. She will not be quite as disgusted by semen as she would pee, so she will take it mostly as a bit of light-hearted teasing. Just like with her lower body though, she will be quite irritated if any of it gets on her clothing, her top a fair bit more so than her skirt.
- Ejaculate on or near her groin while she is aware semen makes babies: Recommend very high levels of trust and submissiveness
Roni is not keen about the idea of having a baby, so if she is aware this could get her pregnant then she will be a bit more resistant to the idea. That said, there are ways to approach it depending on several factors that will still cause her to let it happen.
The key points are whether or not she knows she is not old enough to get pregnant herself, and whether or not she found out semen makes babies before she got her first internal or external exposure to semen. The best scenario is she knows she can't get pregnant and she was exposed to semen before she found out. She may even allow it to continue if she thinks she can get pregnant so long as she was exposed to semen for a long enough period of time to become addicted to it as she is very likely to develop a fetish for bukake and otherwise having semen on her that she can handle and smear around her body. The worst is the case scenario is opposite where she found out about her potential for getting pregnant before ever even seeing semen. Regardless of either of these factors though, if you express something about intentionally getting her pregnant either during or shortly before doing this she will resist to an extent that going through with it could be considered rape or sexual assault unless you have high enough romance scores with her to convince her to have your child. (see intentional impregnation under the hard-core category)
- Perform oral sex on her: Recommend medium trust
Roni will be rather freaked out at the idea of oral to genital contact, but if she is put in a position to receive it then she will not see much problem with what is being done to her. Rather, she will think the person doing it is very weird and might have a lowered opinion of them depending on the circumstances.
The best approach is to do this after she has performed oral sex on you, witch is a much taller order to arrange. Just doing it without discussion but while you are already playing sexually is an Ok approach, and asking her permission to do it will probably result in her objecting for a while until she is convinced you are really not bothered by it (Higher levels of trust make convincing easier) Much like with touching with the hand, performing oral sex on her will get the worst reactions if it is done in a situation with a risk of discovery, and the second worst is if she is minding her own business and not engaged in the idea of sex play.
- Have her perform oral sex on you: Recommend high friendliness and/or familial love and VERY high levels of trust
Assuming Roni is not aware of how babies are made, this will actually be the hardest thing to get her to do, beyond even PIV sex. She associates a penis more with pee than she does sex, and she may have a slight developing fetish for being peed on near her crotch but this does not extend to pee on her face and definitely not in her mouth. While she may realize semen is different from pee, she will still not want it in her mouth.
The best approach would be to have her get the endorsement of another woman, especially if she does it first and tells her how good you taste (especially since Xander, if he maxes out his fertility, will have semen that tastes a lot better than the average guy.) This will almost instantly melt any resistance she might have. The next best approach would be to somehow convince her semen is fine to have in her mouth, especially if she tastes Xander's cum after it has been squirted elsewhere. Simply demanding she do it will most likely result in a flat refusal unless she has a high submissiveness stat. She will not like being psychologically dominated into it, but if Xander's fertility is maxed out and he tastes good then she might forgive it the same way she would being forced to eat a food she was skeptical about.
Hard-core sex acts
Sex acts that involve semen and/or the penis going into a vagina or anus.
- Girl on girl homosexual sex: Recommend low or medium trust.
For Roni to have sex with Lexi, it would hardly be all that different from doing it with Charity other than the fact Xander (or now Lexi) has presented "her" self as more against these kinds of things. If Roni can be convinced Lexi has softened on this stuff, she will actually be quite enthusiastic to begin this kind of stuff with her.
- PIV sex while she is ignorant to its role in impregnation: Recommend medium trust.
Just like how she does not see much difference between having her genitals touched with a penis Vs. a hand, she does not see much difference between the penis being inside her vagina or outside on her slit as Charity has stuck her fingers in there before. Due to her developing urine fetish, she may actually decide on her own she wants you to pee inside, and will not see much difference between pee and semen inside her vagina. She will actually be more comfortable with the concept of having semen go inside her vagina than having it go on the outside on her stomach.
For best and worst reactions, see the section on touching her genitals with the hand and ejaculating on her body, most of the same stuff applies.
- Vaginal sex with condom Recommend medium trust.
Her reaction to this will depend largely on whether or not she knows vaginal sex makes babies. If she doesn't, she will likely think the condom is weird but might accept it if you say it is to prevent it from getting too messy when you ejaculate if she knows about that. She won't be too bothered by the mess herself, but would accept that you might be bothered by it if she has any kind of existing submissiveness rating (if she is dominant, she might insist you not use the condom.) However, if she does know sex makes babies, the condom will calm her down and make her more agreeable to PIV sex, even if she knows she is too young to get pregnant.
The best reaction and worst reactions to this are almost exactly the opposite of the best and worst reactions to semen exposure when she knows it can make a baby (see ejaculating on her crotch while she is aware of the risk.) The worst reaction will be if she has grown to like semen and does not know it makes babies. She will absolutely hate you using a condom and denying her of that experience.
- Anal Sex Recommend medium trust, and previous digital(using fingers) anal sex, PIV sex, or knowledge of PIV sex making babies.
Roni will likely view anal sex as just more fooling around. She has never had Charity put her fingers in her anus before though, so she will require more convincing to try anal sex than PIV sex.
The best approach would be for her not to know PIV sex makes babies, and to have PIV sex with her and then say that now you want to try it in her butt. The next best approach is to finger her anus after or at the same time as fingering her vagina and later state that you want to try it with your penis. If she knows PIV sex makes babies and is offered anal sex as a form of birth control, she will be slightly more hesitant to this approach than PIV sex with a condom, but not by a whole lot.
- PIV sex while aware that it makes babies: Recommend VERY high or extreme levels of trust. High levels of submissiveness and/or romantic love will help too.
Roni will not exactly be keen on the idea of getting pregnant, and will require convincing and a fairly good approach to convince her to have this kind of risky sex if she knows the risks. If she is aware she is too young to get pregnant, then she will still need to have a lot of trust with Xander in order to allow it.
Her reactions to an internal ejaculation under these circumstances are similar to her reactions to having cum near her genitals when she is aware of the risks, except she is a fair degree more resistant to it. It is another story though if she trusts you to pull out. If she thinks that she WILL get pregnant form having sex, she must be convinced first to have Xander's baby before she will allow him to have sex with her.
- Intentionally impregnate Roni: Recommend extreme levels of romantic love, trust, and submissiveness.
Roni does not currently want to have a baby, but in order to convince her otherwise she would need to fall into a romantic love with Xander and then submit to the idea that having a baby would be a symbol of that love.
Roni would need a lot of slow and deliberate warming up to this idea. If her submissiveness is at or near max then she could simply have getting pregnant demanded of her, but she will not like the idea at all. If she winds up getting pregnant while she did not know PIV sex made babies and finds it out afterwards she will feel very hurt and betrayed by Xander, witch will bottom out her trust and give a severe hit to her other relationship scores.
Fetish sex acts
Peculiarities to Roni's sexuality, including desires that do not have strictly to do with reproductive sex as well as what her response would be to physical or psychological force being used to perform a sex act with her. (Note: Relationship recommendations are not given at the beginning as these are things that simply manifest at the appropriate level of sex act. Feeding the fetish is more of a good approach than anything.)
- Mild closet urine fetish:
Since Roni has had a lot of sexual exploration in the bathroom and has associated being watched peeing and watching others pee, as well as having her genitals touched while she is peeing, she has developed a mild urine fetish. She does not want to have her face or upper body peed on, but does not mind it getting on her hands and would be excited by having the area near or around her groin peed on, from the bottom of her rib cage to her knees. If she is not certain how she will clean up, she will prefer it all go on her groin or thighs so it does not get her skirt wet. Also, after she discovers PIV sex, Roni might be quite interested in the idea of a boy peeing inside her vagina. If he does so, she will not really be bothered if he subsequently ejaculates inside her for her first ever experience with semen.
- Potential semen/bukake fetish:
Assuming Roni is unaware of the consequences of getting semen in her vagina, she will find semen to be really neat once she is first exposed to it. She usually engages in sex play because the thrill is like a drug to her. Exposure to semen will be like a stronger concentration of the same drug, and she will become more and more interested in having semen squirted on her body or in her vagina the more it happens. If she has already become addicted before finding out how babies are made, she might have a hard time quitting. And if she is not already pregnant, or not aware of it in the case that she is, then she might decide she likes semen too much too stop (but will be more hesitant to have it go near her vagina.) In this case, later finding out she got pregnant will result in her blaming herself as much if not more than she blames Xander.
- Results of physical force in sex acts:
Roni does not have much of a rape fetish, but does like rough and tumble play. If it can be put off as play or wrestling, then she may consent to most sex acts that are performed upon you achieving physical dominance over her. Even if she was saying to stop, so long as a playful tone, or at least one that isn't too distressed, is used she will put it all off as playful teasing (including ejaculating on her, peeing on her, or even vaginal or anal intercourse) after it is all finished with. However, if she starts to use a more harsh or shrill tone in her demands for Xander to stop, progressing further will have negative results.
- Results of psychological force in sex acts: (Using partner's submissiveness to demand sex even when they don't want it)
Beings Roni is naturally submissive to authority due to her age, she can be made to submit to absolutely any sex act if her submissiveness is high enough. This includes impregnating her against her will. If this approach is used to do things she really didn't want, Roni will hate every second of it. You can still have a good relationship with her outside of when you are forcing her to have sex with you because she will attempt to normalize it, but there will always be a dark shadow in her interactions with you.
There is one case where psychological pressure might have a good result. If she has a full strength addiction to semen going, using psychological pressure to allow you to have PIV sex with her may be accepted quite happily as she will be more hesitant to allow it but if the choice is removed from her by domination then she will feel it absolves her of the guilt. There are also some cases where a sex act achieved through wrestling that she considered playful up until that point might be accepted through a few words such as "can't back out now, I win," or something of the like so long as the sex act is not something she objects to too harshly or has made her objection to clear before hand. This works best if it is said after her voice has lost its playful tone but before it starts to get too harsh or distressed. She might be cut off from becoming distressed with the right word at the right time. However, if she is already distressed when you begin to psychologically dominate her, she will internalize it as you forcing her to do something she doesn't want to do rather than you being playful.