Daycare manager/technical stuff 2/Bathroom

NOTE: Early model, spitballing mechanics.

Currently populating list with all relevant considerations, next step is to begin narrowing down what will be used and how.

List of potentially relevant sex knowledges

Has heard

• Boy's and Girl's privates are different
• You shouldn't touch your privates in public (2)
• You shouldn't let other people touch your privates (3)
• You can let other people touch your privates if you are old enough (0)
• A boy's privates can go inside the hole in the girl's privates
• Putting a boy's penis inside it is what the hole in the girl's privates is for
• Babies are made when mommies and daddies do something called "sex"
• Sex is when the boy's penis goes inside the girl's vagina
• Something white called semen can come out of a boy's penis
• The semen comes out when the penis feels good
• The semen is what makes babies when it gets in the girl's vagina
• There are people who will have sex with you when you don't want them to

Has seen

• The opposite gender's genitals
• Semen
• Someone having sex (1 / 2 / 3) ^^
• Someone being raped (2 / 4 / 6) ^^
• Someone having oral sex ^^
• Someone having anal sex ^^
• Someone giving/receiving a hand-job ^^

Has been taught

• The physical difference between boys and girls
• The physical mechanics of sex (factual text-book knowledge)
• The physical mechanics of sex (applicable knowledge) (2)
• The biology of sex
• How some people will try to take sexual advantage of them (3)
• How to respond to someone doing something sexual to them (2)
• How to recognize someone trying to take sexual advantage of them

Has experienced

• Vanilla sex (2)
• Unwilling vanilla sex (2)^
• Oral sex (receiving) (2)
• Unwilling oral sex (receiving) (2)^
• Oral sex (performing) (2)
• Unwilling oral sex (performing) (2)^
• Anal sex (receiving) (2)
• Unwilling anal sex (receiving) (2)^
• Anal sex (performing) (2)
• Unwilling anal sex (performing) (2)^
• Touching someone else's genitals (2)
• Forced to touch someone else's genitals (2)
• Having own genitals sexually stimulated by someone else's hand (2)
• Unwanted touching of their genitals by someone else (2)

• An orgasm
• Being ejaculated on
• A semen filled vagina (girls only)

Understands

• The basic idea of sex. (allows them to have the ability to process that there is something significant to the penis going into the vagina and how this can make a baby even if they don't know exactly how the biology works.) (5)
• How to perform sexually (3)
• The full biological basis behind sex (2)
• How to avoid being taken advantage of sexually (5)
• The emotional complexities attached to sex (10)
• How to consent to sex (Understands everything about why to refuse sex, and thus can make the informed decision to consent to sex as well) (5)

Context specific experiences

Age

• 3-4
• 5-6
• 7-8
• 9-10
• 11+

Standard bathroom activity

• Has been taken to the bathroom by you before
• Has been taken to the bathroom by you 10+ times
• Has gone to the bathroom by themselves at the facility before
• Usually goes to the bathroom at the facility themselves
• Facility rules say children their age get helped in the bathroom
• Facility rules do not say children their age get helped in the bathroom

Previous sexual activity

(counts anything from sexual touching to vaginal intercourse)

• Consensual
• Consensual 3+ times
• Non-consensual
• Non-consensual 3+ times
• Consensual in bathroom
• Consensual in bathroom 3+ times
• Non-consensual in bathroom
• Non-consensual in bathroom 3+ times