Life Hacks/Mods Guide/Adjust Rewards/Xander's Goals

Since Xander is a teenage boy with raging hormones, and this site is very sexual in its expected content, sexual related goals are a large part of Xander's personal goals. Also, a large portion of Xander's personal goals are repeatable, (especially the sexual ones,) so there is a bonus for the first time Xander manages to accomplish one of these

Note: This list is divided into 3 categories; be cool, be successful, and score some sex. If there are any items between these lists that are duplicates between the lists, Xander scores the points for both lists.

Be Cool

Doing anything that will earn you social cred in a teen age school setting. (only counts if word gets around that you did these things. Unless noted otherwise, the points only count on the 1st, 2nd, 5th, and 10th occurrences.)

• Get into a fight(5, X5 for first time)
• Win a fight(10, X10 for first time)
• Avoid significant negative consequences: Do something that normally has large legal, social, or parental punishments involved, and avoid the negative consequences. (The greater of 50 points or double the points for the action you avoided consequences for.)
• Have a girlfriend(10)
• Have sex(100, only counts twice)
• Have sex with 5 girls (500, infinitely repeatable) All 5+ girls must be socially acceptable as sex partners for you.
• Have sex with a popular girl (500)
• Have sex with a celebrity (1000)
• Win a sporting event (200) Only counts if it is against people who should be considered to have the same skill potential you have.
• Be on a sports team (100)
• Own a car (50, Only counts once)
• Own a somewhat nice car (100, only counts once)
• Own an impressive car (500, Repeatable X10, points for each of the 10 cars.)
• Have some friends in a popular crowd (50/friend, 500 points max)
• Participate in an entertaining public stunt (50) Must make people laugh or cheer without making you look pathetic or too ridiculous.
• Upload a video that goes viral (500)
• Be identified in a viral video (Greater of 1000 or all acts performed in video and known to have happened around it X10)

Be Successful

Doing something that Xander considers a great accomplishment or will improve his future financial earning capabilities. (All items on this list are subject to future change. This list reflects what Xander considers the current path his life should take.)

Geekery

• Great achievement in an MMO: (10)

Complete some kind of difficult challenge that is infamous in a given MMO (not "life.")

• Reach retirement level in "Wayfinder Association":(10)

Get a character to retirement level in the tournament version of the popular table-top game "Wayfinder."

• Write a program that fills a niche:(20)

Write a computer program or hack that people want or wind up using.

Milestones

500 points for first time achieving each item on this list, 50 points for every occurrence thereafter.

• Graduate Highschool: (can only be achieved once.)
• Go to a college:
• Graduate college:
• Get a car:
• Get a Job:
• Get a girlfriend: (Female sex friends don't count, must be a genuine 2 way romantic connection.)
• Get a promotion:
• Get a performance based pay raise: (Not a standard of living pay raise, must be based on accomplishments.)
• Lease a house:
• Buy a house:
• Have a child:

Score some sex

Any sexual or sensual act, Xander has a lot of short and mid-term goals in this category.

Bonuses

• Xander's 1st time performing this sex act. (X5 bonus)

Counts for the first time performing a sex act in an intensity category, once per intensity per partner. First time rewards can be earned in a different item under the same intensity, but only if it is done with a different partner and has not yet been done with the partner the bonus would be voided for. Bonuses are also voided if a higher intensity sex act has been performed with the partner in question.

Note: Extreme or violent sex acts is regarded as the highest level intensity for sex acts. Forced sex acts are regarded as their own separate list of intensifying acts, and items under pregnancy are outside the category system and each earn the bonus individually. All sex acts with your own biological or adopted children count completely separately on the 1st time progression.

• Performing a sex act with someone middle school or younger (+5 and X1.5 bonuses counted separately)

Bonus to the base points count for only the first time per child, but a 1.5 bonus is always in effect.

• Performing a sex act with a family member (+10 and X1.5 bonuses counted separately)

Same rules as sex acts with a younger child, bonus multiplier stacks to X2 if it is a family member middle school age or younger.

• Performing a sex act with own biological children(+20 and X2 bonuses counted separately)

Same rules as sex with a younger child, replaces sex act with family member bonus.

Benign sex acts

Activities that can easily be construed as non-sexual and dismissed both by the person the act is being performed on and also by any on-lookers. It only counts as a sex act because Xander gets aroused by it.

• Play with their hair:(5)
• Hold their hand:(5)
• Have them sit in your lap:(5)
• Hold them with your hands on their butt:(5)

Counts as a dismissable sex act if they notice and react to it

• Kiss their body:(5)

A non sensual seeming kiss (to outside observers) to any part of their body other than the lips or somewhere that would be considered sexual. (Cheeks, forehead, and hands count. Shoulders and feet can count under certain conditions.)

• Excessive hugging (10) Hug them for no reason other than to touch their body.
• Hold possessively (5) Wrap your arm around their shoulders or waist while casually sitting, standing or walking

• Early Grooming (25) Perform 10 or more benign sex acts with the same person with plans to escalate in the future. +5 romance with groomed person (or submissive score if a portion of the acts were non-consensual.)

Dismissable sex acts

Activities that would be considered sensual and inappropriate, but you can cover for and successfully do so. (all items escalate to mild sex acts if they cannot be dismissed in the other person's mind. Points count as many times as you successfully get away with it, but cease to count as soon as a higher level sex act has been performed with this partner, with the exception of "grooming.")

• Slip a hand under a girl's skirt:(10)
• Oggle someone's underwear clad groin, ass, or their bare privates:(5)

X2 points for successfully getting away with oggling bare privates. (multiplier includes all bonuses)

• Secretly watch or walk in on someone changing:(5)

Also counts if you openly watch a child changing (and are turned on by it) without the child or a 3rd party who knows about it registering it as inappropriate.

• Secret dry-humping (10)

Get your partner to sit on your stiff dick, X2 bonus if you get away with it and they are un-clothed, X5 bonus if you get away with it while YOU are un-clothed (X25 if it is your first time doing this, overrites Xander's normal 1st time bonus.) X10 bonus if you somehow get it dismissed as nothing untoward while both of you are un-clothed (X50 if this is your first time doing this, this overrites Xander's normal 1st time bonus.)

• Disrobing (5) Wear less clothing than would otherwise be normal in the presence of someone you are sexually interested in. (Underwear remain in place.)
• Convince to disrobe: (10) Convince someone to remove an article of clothing and keep it off. (not underwear)
• Convince to reveal privates: (20)

Convince partner to use the toilet, change their clothing, or just pull down their underwear in front of you without suspecting that it is in any way sensual.

• Touch genitals or breasts without raising suspicion: (20)

Touch a partner's genitals or breasts for an extended period of time without them finding it suspicious. X2 for bare naked genitals.

• Grooming (50) Perform 10 or more dismissable sex acts with the same person with plans to escalate in the future. +10 romance with partner completed with, (or +10 submissive if any of the acts were non-consensual)

Mild sex acts

Activities that some might disagree on whether they actually count as "sex acts" per say, but are definitely and without a doubt sensual in nature and would definitely be considered inappropriate in any form of "taboo" relationship (such as with a child or family member. Note, failure to get consent for any of these acts is regarded as sexual assault or harassment, depending on the act, for the purpose of assigning points.)

• Kissing on the lips (10)
• Kissing with tongue in partner's mouth (15)
• Groping clothed ass or chest (10)

Partner is fully aware of the groping and acknowledges it as sensual or inappropriate.

• Clothed dry-humping (10)

Rub your genitals together through your cloths, X2 if one of you have bare genitals and the other is clothed. Partner is fully aware of what is going on and that it is sexual or "naughty"

• Showing Privates: (20)

Willing and intentional revealing of privates in the presence of one another, no complaints from either side. (can include changing together, using the toilet, or straight up showing each other what your privates look like, does not include touching.) Must be done with sexual or "naughty" behavior in mind, otherwise it is counted as a dismissable ogling of bare genitals. (counts separately for each one if one of you reveals first then encourages the other, counts together if the deal to show privates is established before either take off items of clothing as something both have to do.)

• Involved with each other (75)

Perform at least 4 items on this list at least 2 times each with plans to continue or escalate this activity. +15 romance with this partner (Or +15 submissive if part of these were achieved non-consensually)

Moderate sex acts

Sex acts that are pretty much sex but would not be called "hard core" on a sex site. (Note: failure to get partner's consent will have these acts regarded as sexual assault, or rape in the case of a forced blow job)

• Groping partner's bare genitals: (20)
• Partner gropes your bare genitals: (20)
• Masturbate to orgasm with each other: (20)
• Blow job/cunalingus (20)
• Bare genitals dry-humping (20)

Rub your genitals against each other, no penetration.

• Ejaculate on female partner's body: (20)

Semen is not on or near the pussy. Counts as fetish if this is for any reason other than to avoid potential pregnancy or to groom her to get used to the idea of eventual vaginal intercourse. Ceases to count if you have ejaculated inside her pussy at some point.

• Ejaculate on pussy (30)

Ejaculate on the outside of a girl's pussy. Counts only if you have yet to ejaculate inside her pussy.

• Ejaculate in partner's underwear: (20, X2 if partner puts on cum-filled underwear)
• Wear underwear filled with partner's cum: (40)

• Raunchy couple (100)

Have 3 or more separate encounters with the same partner in witch one or more of these acts or higher acts occur. +20 in the operative stat with this partner (Or +20 submissive if part of these were achieved non-consensually)

Hard-core sex acts

Sex acts that involve vaginal or anal penetration. (failure to get consent will have these acts regarded as a rape.)

Special Bonuses

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Bonus ponts unique to hard core sex acts

• Break their cherry:

X10 bonus for first time having vaginal sex with a virgin. Multiplier is 10 - X for X being each cherry already claimed, minimum bonus X3.

• Incest taboo:

Does not stack with virgin bonus, virgin bonus takes priority. X5 bonus for first sexual intercourse with a particular member of your family

• Bare back

X1.5 bonus for sex without a condom.

• Confirmed ovulating

X2 bonus for PIV sex without a condom if confirmed to likely be ovulating, replaces bare back bonus.

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• Lose your virginity: (1000, no bonus, can only be earned once)

Xander earns points for loosing his V-card.

• Vaginal sex with Angel, Roni, Rahne, Kizzie, or sex-changed Bastian: (10)

Counts for each girl individually for the same amount of points.

• Vaginal sex with Charity: (15)

Different number of points.

• Vaginal sex with Brittany: (10)
• Vaginal sex with your mother, step mother, or sex-changed father (15)

Counts for each individually for the same amount of points.

• Anal sex with family member:

Counts individually for each family member for 1/2 to 2/3 (depending on witch produces a multiple of 5) of the points for vaginal sex.

• Sex with a publicly accepted girlfriend: (5)
• Sex with a non-family infant: (10)
• Sex with a non-family toddler: (15)
• Sex with a non-family elementary schooler: (15)
• Sex with a non-family middle schooler: (10)
• Sex with a non-family pubescent child (puberty to age 13:) (+10 points)
• Sex with a non-family teen (highschool age:) (10)
• Sex with a non-family adult (18+ and graduated highschool:) (15)
• Regular Sex Partner (125)

Perform hard-core sex acts with the same person 5 times with plans to continue in the future +25 in the operative stat with this partner (Or +25 submissive if part of these were achieved non-consensually)

Extreme or violent sex acts

Fetish or violent sex.

• Sex with a bound or imprisoned partner: (10)

Use rope or other methods to limit sexual partner's movement.

• Secret sex with observer (50)

Have sex with someone watching and avoid being noticed by them.

• Urinating on partner, or being urinated on by partner: (5)
• Cuck a friend (25 X multiplier, X2, X4, or X8. X1 if no multipliers apply)

Have sex with a friend's girlfriend or sister. Points vary depending on whether or not the friend is aware of what you are doing (X2 if they are aware,) whether or not it is in the same room as the friend while this is going on (X2 if it is in the same room,) and whether or not the friend approves of what you are doing (X2 if they are against what you are doing.)

• Kinky sex partner: (150)

Perform an extreme or violent sex act with the same partner 10 times with plans to continue

Pregnancy

Xander's 1st time bonus counts separately for each individual item on this list, counts for the 1st 2 partners to get pregnant/get you pregnant, and also counts additionally for the 1st 2 partners to get pregnant/get you pregnant a second time.

• Get pregnant/get a non-family girl pregnant: (50)
• Get a family member pregnant: (100)
• Have a child: (50)
• Have an incestuous child: (100)
• Get your daughter pregnant: (200)
• Knock up every member of your family: (# of family members X25)

Only counts the males if Xander has thought of sex-changing them before achieving this goal. Can only be achieved again if the children have been born or the number of people that can be considered "part of the family" has increased by at least 50%. 1st time bonus only counts once.

• Breeder: (200)

Earn any one of these achievements 4 times.

Forced Sex

Using force or coersion to perform a sex act with someone against their will. Note, for the purpose of Xander's 1st time bonus, count each item on this list as an intensity escalation and apply the bonus for the first 5 people he performs this act on. Occurences 3-5 are void if a higher intensity has been performed. "Abuser" is also regarded as a .5 escalation of intensity above whatever act was done 10 times. As such, the 1st time bonus applies individually for each act done 10 times, but also voids future bonuses 3-5 for the act in question as well.

• Sexual Harrassment: (20)

Unwelcome pressure on a person of a sexual nature. This is not an actual sex act, but rather words or attitudes that involve pressuring them toward sex the do not want to engage in.

• Sexual Assult: (40)

A forced sexual act that does not meet the definition of rape

• Rape: (50)

Oral, anal, or vaginal sex with an unwilling partner.

• Concealed rape with observer: (200, X3 if observer has close relationship to the victim, and a separate X5 if the observer comes into direct physical contact with you or the victim during the rape.)

Rape someone in plain sight of someone else without the observer even realizing sex has occurred. (Note: Full points can only be achieved with an adult or teen (11+) observer within 20 feet of the incident. 3/4 points for children under 10 within 20 feet. 1/2 for adult or teen observers farther than 20 feet, 1/4 points for child observers farther than 20 feet.)

• Abuser: (points for the act X5)

Sexually harass, sexually assault, or rape the same person 10+ times. (Same observer, same victim, or same observer/victim combo (counted separately) for concealed rape with observer.)