Life Hacks/Roni's sexuality

This is a work in progress. If it looks like it was copy-pasted from the consent minimums page, that's because that's the template I am working off of. If you still see a number in parenthases after an act is named, that means I have not gotten to that passage yet and will be getting to it eventually. The new ones use a new format.

Sexual history

Roni engaged in a little bit of "playing doctor" with Charity (then age 11) at age 4, witch she enjoyed and disrupted the development of her sense of body shame. Under Charity's direction, she has touched the privates of Charity, Angel, and Bastian, and has also been touched by all three of them. They have also all watched each other pee. She has never had her privates touched by anything other than a hand, and no fingers were ever inserted into her vagina.

Roni was the longest target of Charity's sexual experimentation due to her, even then, being adverse to wearing anything aside from a skirt to cover her groin. She made for an easy target. This lasted for about 3 months and ended about 3 weeks after Angel and Bastian entered the mix.

After being caught, she was lectured that those things Charity was doing with her were wrong, but her 4 year old mind didn't really comprehend that. However, when later asking Charity to "play their game," she did eventually figure out that Charity wouldn't do it any more because she would get in trouble for it. Recently, they started doing it in the family bathroom at the park. This has happened only a few times though.

Sexual Knowledge

Before their sex play ended, Charity briefly told Angel how babies were made and Roni was present at the time. However, she doesn't remember the details anymore. She only vaguely remembers that a boy has to do something. This is the closest thing Roni has ever gotten to a sexual education.

• Knows what male genitals look like?: Yes

• Knows how babies are made?: No

• Knows what sex is?: No

• Knows what semen is?: No

General recommended approaches

Roni is actually not all that opposed to the idea of engaging in "sex play" with any of her family members, but she does not want to get into trouble. She sees Xander more as an authority figure rather than a potential "sex play" partner, so she will not initiate anything with Xander for fear she will get into trouble with him. Roni is very conscious to avoid getting herself or others into trouble in regards to this subject.

Roni does not like wearing panties, so a good way to get in with her is to permit her to remove her panties and leave them off or to say you are Ok with it after finding out she is currently not wearing any panties. After this, if her trust values are decent with you, she may allow you to touch her private area. She is used to doing these sorts of things in the bathroom, so this is where she will be the most comfortable with these touching games, second only to the bedroom. She also enjoys watching others pee as well as others watching her pee.

Recommended approaches and relationship levels for specific acts

A list of specific sex acts including details on how Roni views them, witch approaches are likely to work with her, and witch approaches are least likely to work. It also notes witch relationship stat is most influential in getting her to perform this act, as well as whether it needs to be high or low. (being a little below the recommended number means it can still happen with a little bit of persuading. She will resist and be very difficult to convince if it is a lot lower, and be a lot more amendable to it if the number is a lot higher than what is recommended.)

A lot of these specific sex acts have different reactions depending on your relationship score with Roni. Each act will specify the specific score that is looked at, and whether levels need to be high or not so high. These "high, low, medium" type ratings are a little slippery and do not refer to a definite % number, but some numbers might be needed to put a more definite idea in your head of what is being talked about.

• Non-existent = approximately 0-10% (you are not going to see this designation appearing much.)
• Very low = approximately 5-20%
• Low = approximately 10-40%
• Medium = approximately 30-70%
• High = approximately 60-90%
• Very high = approximately 80-95%
• Extreme = approximately 90-100%

You will note there is a wide area of bleed over in those ratings, especially near the middle and also to the extent that the "very high" and "very low" categories are completely covered by the above and below categories. This is because this leaves room for writer interpretation. If you feel in the moment you would rather have them consent or not consent to a sex act for what you have in mind yourself, you can do that, but it also prevents something that really doesn't make sense from happening if their levels are just plain too low. (Note: There are always conditions, such as ways they can be approached, that will prevent you from getting consent even if relationship levels are high enough. Also, if the absolute best approach is used, it is possible to get consent even if relationship levels are not high enough.)

As a final note, submissiveness can always act as a wild card, taking up the place of one insufficient score, but her reaction will be significantly more uncomfortable if she submits instead of giving consent.

Benign sex acts

Acts such as hand-holding, hugging, and having her sit in your lap. Things that are more or less non-sexual, but can be construed in a sexual way to some extent.

Roni has no real problem with Xander doing anything like this with her.

Dismissable sex acts

Acts that can just as easily be seen as sexual as they can non-sexual or unintentional. Examples include holding her ass under her skirt, being shirtless around one another, or oggling her crotch.

Roni has no problem with Xander doing anything like this with her, and will likely take it completely as no big deal even if she did construe it sexually.

Mild sex acts

Acts that cannot be seen as anything but sexual, such as kissing, groping, dry-humping, or revealing privates.

Roni would have a range of reactions to specific situations under this heading.

• Kissing: High romance recommended.

Kissing might actually be the one act down this line Roni would be the most opposed to. Due to her sexual history with Charity, she does not regard sex or sexual touching as having anything to do with romance, but kissing most certainly does, and she is freaked out about the idea of being romantic with a family member. She would have to be approached slowly and gradually with this idea.

The best approach would be to softly bring up the idea of being romantically interested in her and give her a few days to digest the concept before attempting to kiss her. Another option would be to just suddenly kiss her out of nowhere and play it off as a joke, getting her used to the idea of kissing while somewhat dissociating it from the idea of romance. However, this will not work for long and she will quickly begin to doubt it is all just a joke, but it is still better than the worst option. The worst approach would be to bring up the idea of a romantic relationship and then attempt to kiss her the same day, or in the same conversation.

• Grope breasts and/or genitals over cloths: Recommend low levels of trust

Roni is actually used to having her bare genitals touched by Charity, so she would think doing it over cloths is just silly and likely get tired of it fast. She will allow it for almost anyone she has even a mild relationship with, but won't let it continue for long without escalating.

• Show privates to each other for no reason other than to just look: Recommend low levels of trust

Roni would see relatively little problem with showing her privates to any of her male friends who she doesn't think would tell their parents if they are curious what a girl looks like, but it would be a little more difficult with Xander since she sees him as an authority figure who she would get in trouble with. In Xander's case, see the write up for touching bare genitals under "moderate sex acts." Just about all the same things would apply with the exception of the required trust score being lower.

• Use toilet with other present in bathroom: Recommend medium levels of trust

To Roni, the bathroom is the place where her sexual games with Charity happen. As such, someone being in the bathroom with her while using it would have a heavy association with that as a potential escalation, meaning she needs to trust you enough to go to that escalation before she will use the bathroom with you.

• Reference or discuss moderate or hard-core sex with each other: Based on trust and friendliness, reactions based on level.

Roni has no real knowledge about higher intensity sex acts other than groping bare genitals. Roni's reaction is based on trust and friendliness. If levels are very low she will likely be disturbed and want to get away. If they are moderate she will be interested in the information she is hearing. If the levels are high then she will likely wind up wanting to try the actions being discussed.

The best reactions can be gotten if you have already revealed to Roni you want to do those sorts of things with her, and the best way to do this is by having already touched her groin in an obviously sexual way, especially without panties. If she still regards you as an authority figure, she will not necessarily be put off but she will be uncomfortable, most of that discomfort will come from the fact that she is interested in hearing about this but is afraid of what will happen if she shows too much interest. (this will also close off the option of her wanting to try the discussed things with you.)

• Crotch to crotch clothed dry-humping: Recommend medium friendship and low trust.

Roni is not likely to understand this as sexual unless the cloths are off. As such, she will just regard it as something a little weird the other person is doing. She won't think much of the action of rubbing crotches together in and of itself, but the act of getting that close to her body to body is another story entirely. The most likely way to do this is through wrestling, witch is something she will need to be somewhat friendly with you in order for the opportunity to do this to arise.

The best way to achieve this is in the middle of wrestling, witch will yeild the above results. Asking her permission to rub your crotches together will be taken the same exact way as asking to do it without cloths, and one way or another she will not allow it. She will either express that she wants to do it naked if you are in a position for her to be comfortable with doing that, or if you are not in such a position then she will become very uncomfortable and have a negative reaction.

• Be casually naked with one another: Recommend low levels of trust and/or friendliness, and confidence she won't get caught.

Roni is rather adventerous when it comes to exposing her body, so the big hang-up for this is the fear that someone who would disapprove might find out. She will need to trust you just enough to be sure you won't cause her to get in trouble, but after that the only thing she needs to be convincable is knowing no disapproving authority figure or someone who might tell such an authority figure will find out.

Best approach, have only the two of you in a closed room together with no expectation of interruption. An Ok approach would be to have a number of people present, 100% of whom say it is fine. She will be doubtful and nervous in such a situation, but can be convinced. The worst approach witch will have negative impacts on her trust is to push for this in an area where there is an unacceptable risk of discovery, and there will be disastrous results if you cause the discovery risk to somehow become even higher, especially if you actually do get discovered.

Moderate sex acts

Sex acts that most would consider sex, but would not get the "hard-core" label if filmed and put on a porn site.

• Touch each other's bare genitals with hand Recommend medium levels of trust.

Roni is actually quite used to the idea of having an older sibling, in the form of Charity, touching her genitals. She also wouldn't much mind the idea of touching a sibling's genitals, as she has done this with Charity a lot as well but is bored of the fact that Charity only has the same stuff she does. She kind of wants to touch Bastian's penis again like back when she was 4 and will be excited at the idea if Xander gives her the option.

The best approach is to do this in a park family bathroom or some other bathroom where it does not seem you are likely to be disturbed. She will also respond just as well to being asked to a private area and then subsequently asked to touch her genitals. Another good option is to tell her she does not have to wear her panties and then ask permission to touch her genitals while that area of her anatomy is already the subject of conversation. Simply touching them while carrying her will cause her some concern, especially if it is in public, but she will not complain. The worst approach is to simply grab her and start touching or demand it without waiting for permission while she is in her own room or otherwise minding her own business, but even then she will just be a bit annoyed. The only disastrous means by witch to approach this act is to do it in public, witch is something she really would not like.

• Rub your bare genitals together: Recommend medium levels of trust and/or friendliness

Roni would not see much difference between having a penis rubbed on her vulva Vs. a finger. As such, if she will consent to having her genitals touched with a hand, she will consent to having them touched with a penis.

• Masturbate partner to orgasm Recommend medium or high levels of trust.

Roni has actually not been masturbated to orgasm by Charity before. She is just as likely to allow it as touching her genitals, but she will probably get scared as it is actually happening. She will allow it to happen if your trust levels with her are medium, but she will feel more comfortable if they are higher and her reaction afterward will be better as a result.

The best approach is to have another woman tell her it is something safe that feels good, and an Ok approach is to have you as a male explain the same thing. Simply doing it with permission to touch her but not warning her of what to expect her body's reaction to be will get her a bit annoyed, and doing it under any condition she would not have been too enthusiastic to let herself be touched will get her even more scared as it is happening and very angry after the fact.

• Ejaculate on her body, anywhere between her stomach and her knees, while she is not aware semen makes babies:Recommend medium or high levels of trust, and medium in friendliness and/or familial love.

Roni actually has something of a slight urine fetish due to her early experiences with watching others pee and them watching her pee. As such, she would take being ejaculated on very much the same way she would being peed on, except after seeing the stuff she may decide she actually likes it more than pee. She knows the idea of this is gross and hasn't brought it up with Charity, and this is the main reason for higher levels of trust and friendship being needed. She is afraid of the person doing it with her thinking she is weird. She actually finds the idea of having her privates peed or ejaculated on to be more acceptable than other parts of her body (mostly because she doesn't know what semen does if it gets inside her vagina) because that is a region of her body she is more used to the idea of cleaning up with toilet paper than her face, chest, or lower legs. If she is going to have to wear her skirt later before getting the chance to clean up, she would actually prefer it all go between her legs.

The best approach is to tell her your penis can make something other than just pee and you want to shoot it on her, and an Ok approach is to just do it without warning her. So long as it does not get on her face and she has a chance to clean up, she is more likely to get curious than annoyed. If your trust levels are medium, this actually might be the better method using an "easier to seek forgiveness than permission" approach.

• Ejaculate on her head, hair, chest, or face: Recommend high levels of trust and friendship and/or familial love

Roni will generally think about semen in a similar way to how she would pee. As such, she does not really want it on her face or hair and might be a little disturbed by it being on her chest. If your relationship levels with her are high enough though, she can be shifted from this position and convinced they are not the same.

The best approaches are either to have it taken for a complete accident that it got on her face or head, or to convince her ahead of time that it is different from pee and won't hurt her. Seeing another person being fine with it being on their face may also calm her to the idea. Without these things in place, intentionally aiming for her face will get her annoyed with you, but not so much as to reduce relationship scores. She will not be quite as disgusted by semen as she would pee, so she will take it mostly as a bit of light-hearted teasing.

• Ejaculate on or near her groin while she is aware semen makes babies: Recommend very high levels of trust and submissiveness

Roni is not keen about the idea of having a baby, so if she is aware this could get her pregnant then she will be a bit more resistant to the idea. That said, there are ways to approach it depending on several factors that will still cause her to let it happen.

The key points are whether or not she knows she is not old enough to get pregnant herself, and whether or not she found out semen makes babies before she got her first internal or external exposure to semen. The best scenario is she knows she can't get pregnant and she was exposed to semen before she found out. The worst is the opposite of that scenario, and if you express something about intentionally getting her pregnant either during or shortly before doing this she will resist to an extent going through with it could be considered rape or sexual assault unless you have high enough romance scores with her to convince her to have your child. (see intentional impregnation under the hard-core category)

• Perform oral sex on her: Recommend medium trust

Roni will be rather freaked out at the idea of oral to genital contact, but if she is put in a position to receive it then she will not see much problem with what is being done to her. Rather, she will think the person doing it is very weird and might have a lowered opinion of them depending on the circumstances.

The best approach is to do this after she has performed oral sex on you, witch is a much taller order to arrange. Just doing it without discussion but while you are already playing sexually is an Ok approach, and asking her permission to do it will probably result in her objecting for a while until she is convinced you are really not bothered by it (Higher levels of trust make convincing easier) Much like with touching with the hand, performing oral sex on her will get the worst reactions if it is done in a situation with a risk of discovery, and the second worst is if she is minding her own business and not engaged in the idea of sex play.

• Have her perform oral sex on you: Recommend high friendliness and/or familial love and VERY high levels of trust

Assuming Roni is not aware of how babies are made, this will actually be the hardest thing to get her to do, beyond even PIV sex. She may have a slight developing fetish for being peed on near her crotch, but this does not extend to pee on her face or in her mouth, and so she also may be hard to convince to put a penis in her mouth and even more so for letting you ejaculate in her mouth. However, if Xander maxes out his physical characteristics, his semen and pre-cum will start tasting pretty good to women, and that taste might sway her if she can be convinced to put it in her mouth in the first place.

The best approach would be to have her get the endorsement of another woman, especially if she does it first and tells her how good you taste. This will almost instantly melt any resistance she might have. The next best approach would be to somehow convince her semen is fine to have in her mouth, especially if she tastes Xander's cum after it has been squirted elsewhere. Simply demanding she do it will most likely result in a flat refusal unless she has a high submissiveness stat.

Hard-core sex acts

Sex acts that involve semen and/or the penis going into a vagina or anus.

• Girl on girl homosexual sex: Recommend low or medium trust.

For Roni to have sex with Lexi, it would hardly be all that different from doing it with Charity other than the fact Xander (or now Lexi) has presented "her" self as more against these kinds of things. If Roni can be convinced Lexi has softened on this stuff, she will actually be quite enthusiastic to begin this kind of stuff with her.

• PIV sex while she is ignorant to its role in impregnation: Recommend medium trust.

Just like how she does not see much difference between having her genitals touched with a penis Vs. a hand, she does not see much difference between the penis being inside her vagina or outside on her slit as Charity has stuck her fingers in there before. Due to her developing urine fetish, she may actually decide on her own she wants you to pee inside, and will not see much difference between pee and semen inside her vagina. She will actually be more comfortable with the concept of having semen go inside her vagina than having it go on the outside of her stomach.

For best and worst reactions, see the section on touching her genitals with the hand and ejaculating on her body, most of the same stuff applies.

• Vaginal sex with condom Recommend medium trust.

Her reaction to this will depend largely on whether or not she knows vaginal sex makes babies. If she doesn't, she will likely think the condom is weird but might accept it if you say it is to prevent it from getting too messy when you ejaculate if she knows about that. She won't be too bothered by the mess herself, but would accept that you might be bothered by it if she has any kind of existing submissiveness rating (if she is dominant, she might insist you not use the condom.) However, if she does know sex makes babies, the condom will calm her down and make her more agreeable to PIV sex, even if she knows she is too young to get pregnant.

• Anal Sex Recommend medium trust, and previous digital(using fingers) anal sex, PIV sex, or knowledge of PIV sex making babies.

Roni will likely view anal sex as just more fooling around. She has never had Charity put her fingers in her anus before though, so she will require more convincing to try anal sex than PIV sex.

The best approach would be for her not to know PIV sex makes babies, and to have PIV sex with her and then say that now you want to try it in her butt. The next best approach is to finger her anus after or at the same time as fingering her vagina and later state that you want to try it with your penis. If she knows PIV sex makes babies and is offered anal sex as a form of birth control, she will be slightly more hesitant to this approach than PIV sex with a condom, but not by a whole lot.

• PIV sex while aware that it makes babies: Recommend VERY high or extreme levels of trust. High levels of submissiveness and/or romantic love will help too.

Roni will not exactly be keen on the idea of getting pregnant, and will require convincing and a fairly good approach to convince her to have this kind of risky sex if she knows the risks. If she is aware she is too young to get pregnant, then she will still need to have a lot of trust with Xander in order to allow it.

Her reactions to an internal ejaculation under these circumstances are similar to her reactions to having cum near her genitals when she is aware of the risks, except she is a fair degree more resistant to it. It is another story though if she trusts you to pull out. If she thinks that she WILL get pregnant form having sex, she must be convinced first to have Xander's baby before she will allow him to have sex with her.

• Intentionally impregnate Roni: Recommend extreme levels of romantic love, trust, and submissiveness.

Roni does not currently want to have a baby, but in order to convince her otherwise she would need to fall into a romantic love with Xander and then submit to the idea that having a baby would be a symbol of that love.

Roni would need a lot of slow and deliberate warming up to this idea. If her submissiveness is at or near max then she could simply have getting pregnant demanded of her, but she will not like the idea at all. If she winds up getting pregnant while she did not know PIV sex made babies and finds it out afterwards she will feel very hurt and betrayed by Xander, witch will bottom out her trust and give a severe hit to her other relationship scores.

Fetish sex acts

Peculiarities to Roni's sexuality, including desires that do not have strictly to do with reproductive sex as well as what her response would be to physical or psychological force being used to perform a sex act with her. (Note: Relationship recommendations are not given at the beginning as these are things that simply manifest at the appropriate level of sex act. Feeding the fetish is more of a good approach than anything.)

• Mild closet urine fetish:

Since Roni has had a lot of sexual exploration in the bathroom and has associated being watched peeing and watching others pee, as well as having her genitals touched while she is peeing, she has developed a mild urine fetish. She does not want to have her face or upper body peed on, but does not mind it getting on her hands and would be excited by having the area near or around her groin peed on, from the bottom of her rib cage to her knees. If she is not certain how she will clean up, she will prefer it all go on her groin or thighs so it does not get her skirt wet. Also, after she discovers PIV sex, Roni might be quite interested in the idea of a boy peeing inside her vagina. If he does so, she will not really be bothered if he subsequently ejaculates inside her for her first ever experience with semen.

• Potential bukake fetish:

Assuming Roni is unaware of the consequences of getting semen in her vagina, she will find semen to be really neat once she is first exposed to it. She usually engages in sex play because the thrill is like a drug to her. Exposure to semen will be like a stronger concentration of the same drug, and she will become more and more interested in having semen squirted on her body or in her vagina the more it happens. If she has already become addicted before finding out how babies are made, she might have a hard time quitting, and if she is not already pregnant, or not aware of it in the case that she is, then she might decide she likes semen too much too stop (but will be more hesitant to have it go near her vagina.) In this case, later finding out she got pregnant will result in her blaming herself as much if not more than she blames Xander.

• Results of physical force in sex acts:

Roni does not have much of a rape fetish, but does like rough and tumble play. If it can be put off as play or wrestling, then she may consent to most sex acts that are performed upon you achieving physical dominance over her, even if she was saying to stop so long as a playful tone was maintained. However, if she starts to use a more harsh or shrill tone in her demands for Xander to stop, progressing further will have negative results.

• Results of psychological force in sex acts: (Using partner's submissiveness to demand sex even when they don't want it)

Beings Roni is naturally submissive to authority due to her age, she can be made to submit to absolutely any sex act if her submissiveness is high enough. This includes impregnating her against her will. If this approach is used to do things she really didn't want, Roni will hate every second of it. You can still have a good relationship with her outside of when you are forcing her to have sex with you because she will attempt to normalize it, but there will always be a dark shadow in her interactions with you.