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Let's talk about other dangers then. Like, isn't what you're doing super risky?
Well, yes and no! I'd say that there are three big risks involved, all of which are tied to each other.
Before that though, I've got to ask… Are you on your period yet?
N-no, I haven't had my first period yet… I've only talked about it a bit with my mother a little. Like, she sat me down one time after a visit to the hospital - I was sick at the time, and the nurse was asking about my growth, adolescence, and stuff - and she told me the basics and assured me that when it happens, I shouldn't panic. She didn't teach me much, and I haven't looked that stuff up online either, so that's basically all I know…
Aren't I too young anyway?
Not at all! Girls our age can have periods. Yes, it's unusual, but it's possible and something to be mindful of. I just thought I'd ask because since it IS possible, it's the first risk involved:
Getting pregnant! We don't want that!
And even if you
WANT to have a baby - which I wouldn't blame you for! - it'd be kind of a bad idea since it would bring obvious attention to the fact that you've been doing something, or maybe even make people think that you'd been sexually assaulted. You know, it's not exactly legal for adults to have sex with children, age of consent laws and all that, and a preggo belly is a pretty big giveaway!
Dealing with the police snooping around, wondering who did it, asking questions… It's troublesome and unwanted attention for the whole community. Same with worried parents if you're someone who tried to hide it from them. Then there's visits to the doctor, the burden of having a baby growing up inside you, childbirth, raising the baby… All that stuff will be a pain.
There's no rule against pregnancy though?
Correct! If you understand the risks and want to bear a child despite the risks, there's no rule against it, so go ahead! Just make sure that the one who impregnates you is responsible about it, okay?
I-I'll keep that in mind…
And, in case of accidents, broken condoms, scuffed pills… Abortions
ARE legal here in Sweden, in case you didn't know, but it's not fun business either, as you will need to deal with uncomfortable situations. It's better to avoid pregnancies altogether in my opinion.
Okay… Makes sense…
How to prevent it then?
Any birth control, really. I prefer pills, personally. Condoms are a bit of a pain to carry around.
Same! It also feels a lot better raw!
You know, skin-on-skin contact, just as nature intended! A bare cock feels a lot better than one with a rubber!
I'm just… Not gonna comment on that one at all…
Oh, and this totally is something to start thinking about immediately if you're thinking about doing it with someone. You totally can get pregnant before your first period.
Because the egg is released from your ovaries as part of the menstrual cycle, silly! "Periods" are simply a way of cleaning an unfertilized egg up and disposing of it along with the other stuff that I don't understand very well. Lots of stuff going on down there, y'know. I'm no doctor, but I know it's possible.
O-oh… My mother didn't teach me that part…
Oh? How irresponsible of her! *giggle*
As you might guess, you just simply can't know when it'll start for you. Next month? Three years from now? All girls grow at a different rate, so better safe than sorry and just try to prevent it if you can.
How about you girls then? Have you had your first periods yet?
Not me either!
We can help you with getting your hands on birth control if you ever need it! Saves you from the embarrassment of going to the local store to buy condoms!
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I think I understand perfectly now. Thanks.
Let me guess, the next danger is the
danger of getting caught?
Exactly! It's for the same reasons I already laid down earlier: police, worry-wart parents, and such… Some adults might even know about the marks we wear but be against it.
The gods usually "blind" them to protect our secrets.
I wouldn't be so trusting…
Just saying. But Heidi is right; getting caught is something to keep in mind, so don't go putting all your trust on the gods above.
How do you avoid such situations then?
Well, just remember the pact of secrecy. Don't do anything stupid. Do it in private with nobody else around. Not sure what else to say. There will always be the risk of getting caught, especially if you do it outside, because, you know… SOME people like to snoop on other's private businesses.
I'm sorry, okay? Don't be mad… I don't wanna get cursed…
*giggle* I already said I'm not mad… I'm just teasing you a little, so sorry about that…
And what if an accident happens?
Right, accidents…
If you get caught wearing a star by someone who doesn't like it, the best thing you can do is play dumb! Say you have no idea what they're talking about. Hell, you can even accuse them of being pedophile creeps trying to sexually harass you by suggesting you're a naughty girl. Works more often than you might think! The last thing a person who isn't a pedophile wants is to be suspected of being a sexual predator himself!
As for getting caught while having sex?
…Try not to? I mean, I know there is a certain kind of thrill you can get while thinking what
could happen if you get caught, but…
Not the answer I was hoping for…
That's because we don't really have an answer to your question. Better just wish that never happens, I guess… I mean, it is one of the three big risks for a reason…
Okay, I can see why those two are both big concerns, but I can't really think of what the third one is, as it's not connected to these two… Right…?
Well, yes, the third risk is perhaps the biggest risk, as it's
bad actors. You know, rule-breakers and those that want to violate our consent.
Just because we are okay with sex and may even like it doesn't mean we like everything. We all have our limits, things we find too scary, repulsive, or extreme for any other reason. Some people may, let's just say… "take offense", if you know what I mean, and try to get away with doing those things to us anyway.
Some people can be
VERY forceful, maybe even manipulative, and such people don't like taking "no" for an answer.
Should've figured that one out… There are bad people all over the world, after all…
Aren't they afraid of what mind breaking the rules then…?
Well, they
should be, but what are you gonna do?
Yeah, I mean… It's the same thing as with actual laws. Even murderers know what they're doing is wrong and illegal, but they don't care. Why? Because they think they can get away with it.
It is, and that's why this is the single most considerable risk. Getting accidentally pregnant or discovered by some moral police can't put you in mortal danger, but bad actors sure can.
What's the best way to avoid them?
Well, for starters, don't seek out sexual partners in unsafe areas. Playgrounds, small local villages in this area, communities with many children and families, and schools are typically safe places. Anywhere else - especially in the areas you're not familiar with - be careful. If you come across a person who seems dangerous or threatening to you, just remind them of the rules and warn them. Run away if you have to.
Now, if you happen to somehow end up in bed with a dangerous person… Just try to call the date off immediately if the partner is too forceful or doing something he's not supposed to. Remind them of the rules here as well. Stress that a jail cell might not be the worst thing waiting for them if they hurt us.
If that fails, do anything you can to put a stop to it. Call the cops, run, scream, punch, kick, bite… Grab a fucking kitchen knife and try to kill them if you must. Do literally anything that'll discourage them.
Have things like this ever happened to you two…?
No, thankfully not.
Some people living here are a bit forceful, yes, but that's not
ALWAYS a bad thing either.
I mean, a rough shagging can actually feel pretty fucking amazing…
Go on! Say it
LOUDER!Rough shagging feels fucking amazing!
Stop yelling before your granny comes to give you a rough
spanking!
Wasn't there also something about Lauhatar warning us if we could be in danger?
Yeah, there was! Lauhatar does NOT want anything terrible to happen to us, so she CAN take the star away from us and erase it if she feels like we're walking down a self-destructive path. Lauhatar sees through malicious intent where we do not, and if she thinks we could be in danger, she will either take the star away from us, or "blind" them if they have a past history of violations.
So don't be scared, okay? We're not talking about the risks to you to scare you away.
I know you don't. Thanks. Anything else in regards to dangers?
No, not really. How about you? Got any more questions?
