Life Hacks/Jan's sexuality

This is the new format for showing what the individual character's reaction will be to sexual advances with them depending on their sexual history, sexual knowledge, sexual quirks, and their relationship with you. It contains some of the information from the old system, and also goes into detail about how they might react to individual sex acts giving various ways you might approach them. Please note that there will always be a chance they might reject you regardless of relationship score depending on your approach and their mood at the time due to other factors. Also note that the scores say a "recommended" relationship score before pursuing a sex act. It is possible to get them to agree with a lower score if you use the best approach (especially if you have high social skills.)

Sexual history

Jan has not had her sex-ed class in school yet, and so she has no real knowledge about sex. She started having her period when she was 10 and is a light bleeder, but tends to get really cuddly with her father or older brother when she is on the rag. She has noticed herself becoming more curious about the difference between boys and girls and has taken a liking to hanging out in March and Agust's room while the boys are in. She knows it probably won't happen, but she secretly hopes her brothers will start sexually exploring each other's bodies like she knows her older sisters do and maybe forget she is there while they are doing it.

2 years ago, when her younger brother Octo was 3, she liked to "help him on the potty" when she could, but she realizes she lost interest when he got old enough she could no longer use that excuse to see his privates. While Decy has started potty training and she could probably get an even better look at his privates, she kind of wants to see the privates of a boy closer to her own age.

She has recently learned that March does all his sexual explorations with Xander while he is visiting his house, and has been trying to think of a way to convince her brother to bring her along when he goes to visit Xander.

Sexual Knowledge

The closest thing Jan has had to a sexual education is when her older sister taught her to use her feminine products while she was having her period. Aside from that, she has been taught not to let strangers or boys see or touch her privates, and not to let female family members touch them unless necessary, but without a proper reason given she is starting to question the basis behind these rules.

Knows where babies come from?: Everyone in the Holliday family knows babies come from mommy's belly and that daddy does something to put the baby in there, and that it has something to do with being married and sleeping in the same bed. She does not know specifics beyond that but is certainly curious. (the parental filters on the internet that block porn are a bit too sensitive and even block medical explanations of sex.)

Knows what a boy's penis looks like?: Has seen her infant and toddler brothers' penises several times, sometimes multiple times a day. Has never seen an adult or teen penis, and has never seen one erect.

Knows what semen is?: No.

Knows what sex is?: She has heard the word "sex" before, but doesn't know what it is. She has looked at her little brothers' penises before in the bathroom, and knows about older boys and girls touching each other, but has not made the connection that these things are related to sex. She thinks this stuff is just "playing with privates" and is not all that aware of the adult nature of any of it.

General recommended approaches

She is incredibly curious and interested in seeing an older boy's penis, and is also quite willing to show her own in exchange. She also wants to touch and explore the boy's penis and is willing to let herself be touched back in exchange. She will not do this with just anyone of course, but she would have practically zero resistance for male members of her family so long as she doesn't think she will get in trouble over it. (This means her father is out, but her older brother March and Xander who she views as a brother are both fine.)

As such, the best approach with her is simply to find a quiet place together and start agreeing to do things with her. She will be more willing to go a lot farther if she's allowed to join in on one of Xander's and March's masturbation sessions and the peer pressure and expectations of both of her older brother figures will get her to agree to just about anything.

Letting her know sex makes babies will make her a bit more hesitant, but she might be willing to keep having sex if she's had sex before finding this out and it continues afterward.

Her reaction to specific sex acts

While the above can help you to predict how she might react to sex generally, below is how she will react to specific acts.

At the heading of each act, there will be a recommendation on witch relationship stat(s) will be most effective in getting her to lower her guard against this specific sex act if they cross a certain threshold. This threshold will be given a "low/medium/high" rating rather than a specific number. Although, there is a rough number each rating is meant to represent, as outlined by the table below.

Non-existent = approximately 0-10% (you are not going to see this designation appearing much.)
Very low = approximately 5-20%
Low = approximately 10-40%
Medium = approximately 30-70%
High = approximately 60-90%
Very high = approximately 80-95%
Extreme = approximately 90-100%

Note: The categories do overlap. This is to represent the wiggle room given to the writer in a case by case basis in interpreting their current score. Also, it is entirely possible to achieve consent for a sex act while falling short of the threshold with exactly the right approach, and it is also possible to have them reject you while you have far exceeded the threshold with the wrong approach.

Final note: Submissiveness is a wild card for achieving non-resistance to a sex act. However, non-resistance does not mean they will like it.

Benign sex acts

Acts such as hand-holding, hugging, and having her sit in your lap. Things that are more or less non-sexual, but can be construed in a sexual way to some extent.

Hold her hand:
Play with her hair:
Hugging
Pick her up off the ground:
Have her sit in your lap:
Kiss her cheeks or forehead:

Dismissable sex acts

Acts that can just as easily be seen as sexual as they can non-sexual or unintentional. Examples include holding her ass, being shirtless around one another, or oggling her crotch.

Be shirtless around her:
Comfortable around you in her pajamas:
Oggle her clothed groin or breasts:
"Accidentally" oggle her bare groin or breasts:
Fondle her fully clothed ass while hugging or other such activity:
Change cloths in presence of each other, not going naked
Make sexually charged or sexually related banter with each other
Wear only shirt and underwear around her
"Secretly" dry-hump leg, hip, or ass (either direction)

Mild sex acts

Acts that would not be regarded as sex but cannot be seen as anything but sexual, such as kissing, groping, dry-humping, or revealing privates.

Kissing:

Grope breasts and/or genitals over cloths:

Show privates to each other for no reason other than to just look:

Use toilet with other present in bathroom:

Reference or discuss moderate or hard-core sex with each other:

Crotch to crotch clothed dry-humping:

Be casually naked with one another:

Moderate sex acts

Sex acts that most would consider sex, but would not get the "hard-core" label if filmed and put on a porn site.

Touch each other's bare genitals with hand

Rub your bare genitals together:

Masturbate partner to orgasm

Ejaculate on her body, anywhere between her stomach and her knees, while she is not aware semen makes babies:

Ejaculate on her head, hair, chest, or face:

Ejaculate on or near her groin while she is aware semen makes babies:

Perform oral sex on her:

Have her perform oral sex on you:

Hard-core sex acts

Sex acts that involve semen and/or the penis going into a vagina or anus.

Girl on girl homosexual sex:

PIV sex while she is ignorant to its role in impregnation:

Vaginal sex with condom

Anal Sex

PIV sex while aware that it makes babies:

Intentionally impregnate her:

Fetish sex acts

Peculiarities to her sexuality, including desires that do not have strictly to do with reproductive sex as well as what her response would be to physical or psychological force being used to perform a sex act with her. (Note: Relationship recommendations are not given at the beginning as these are things that simply manifest at the appropriate level of sex act. Feeding the fetish is more of a good approach than anything.)

Results of physical force in sex acts:

Results of psychological force in sex acts: (Using partner's submissiveness to demand sex even when they don't want it)