Life Hacks/Siobhan's sexuality

This is the new format for showing what the individual character's reaction will be to sexual advances with them depending on their sexual history, sexual knowledge, sexual quirks, and their relationship with you. It contains some of the information from the old system, and also goes into detail about how they might react to individual sex acts giving various ways you might approach them. Please note that there will always be a chance they might reject you regardless of relationship score depending on your approach and their mood at the time due to other factors. Also note that the scores say a "recommended" relationship score before pursuing a sex act. It is possible to get them to agree with a lower score if you use the best approach (especially if you have high social skills.)

Sexual history

While Siobhan may have been raised by Trish, she was not raised in the same manner as Dante and Ellie. She lived with her parents until she was 8, and it wasn't until just before Trish's husband died that she started getting big on the whole permissive child sexuality kick. As such, Siobhan grew up with fairly conservative and suppressed views on sex.

When she turned 12 was when Trish sat down with her and talked about her new values on sex and sexual experimentation and how she did not want for her to grow up like she had to. She took her surrogate mother up on this and took the chance to explore her then baby niece's pussy a little during diaper changes. However, she did not dare try it with Dante because he was old enough to talk by then. Despite what her older sister said, she always had a little bit of trouble believing it.

Since she has entered High School, she has been wanting to find a boy outside the family to have sex with, figuring that would be more in line with what her sister meant. However, she is a little socially awkward and does not know how to ask without everyone thinking she is a slut. She is shy and bad at making friends.

(Note: She is aware of Xander as he was something of a social outcast like her. He is one of the people she has considered asking to be her first male sexual partner. As a matter of fact, he was the top of her list based on him being the most socially outcast and thus, in her mind, easily approachable. However, she never worked up the nerve to approach him.)

Sexual Knowledge

Siobhan knows what is taught in health class, but has a hard time conceptualizing it. She knows the penis is supposed to go in the vagina, and she knows where the vagina is, but she just can't picture that happening and this makes her nervous. She also knows about sperm, but has a hard time picturing that as well. She imagines it as the sperm coming out into the woman's vagina and 100% of them swimming immediately straight into the uterus and that semen is something that you never see outside the body. She also imagines that it can't come out unless the penis is in the girl's vagina, based falsely on the fact that her nephew Dante has never ejaculated before and thinks the reason is because he has never had it in a girl's vagina.

Knows what male genitals look like?: Yes, has seen Dante's
Knows how babies are made?: Yes
Knows what sex is?: Yes
Knows what semen is?: Knows of it, has a poor concept of it.

General recommended approaches

Siobhan has worked it up in her imagination that she is somehow obligated to have PIV sex with you specifically. However, she is incredibly nervous about the idea. She is also aware that sex makes babies, and she is somewhat aware that it would probably be a bad thing for her to get pregnant at her current age (more because she is afraid of being called a slut than the responsibility of being a mother.) She would like for you to use a condom, however she is so nervous and awkward she is liable to forget to ask for one and then be too nervous to ask you to stop and put one on as it is happening despite being scared to death and wanting you to stop before you impregnate her. She will even tell you nothing's wrong if you notice how concerned she is and ask about it. (Also, if her niece who wants the girls in the family to be pregnant says you should get Siobhan pregnant, she will probably let you do it despite thinking it is a bad idea. She simply won't know how to object if you are in the room as she will be concerned that if she resists then you will think she hates you and this idea.)

Siobhan will be too awkward to beat around the bush and use subtle methods to hint at her sexual desires. If she does ask you, she will straight up ask you in a nervous and stuttering voice if you want to have sex. However, she is also nervous to a point where she is not likely to be the first one to ask. She might be more likely to ask though if she sees you are doing sexual things with her other family members. This will tell her you are fairly open to it and she doesn't have to be as concerned.

If you approach her and you are the one to initiate the sex, she is likely to become unable to string words together and become very scared, but she will also get scared if you interpret this as her not wanting to and she will respond by practically throwing herself at your cock. She will be a lot less frightened though if you are less direct and you start cuddling, touching, and kissing without saying what your intentions are. Her reaction to this will be to get quiet with the occasional nervous laugh and uncertain indication of her permission for you to continue. She will let you go as far as you want and do anything you want with no real objection.

Note: Siobhan will do absolutely any sex act with you with relatively low relationship stats. The only thing higher relationship stats will do for you sex wise with her is that the higher friendliness, trust, and romantic and familial love are with her the less nervous she will be in performing sex acts with you. She will also be more likely to read signals correctly. Higher stats will actually make her less likely to jump straight to sex at the slightest use of seduction.

Reaction to sex with her charges

Siobhan applies surrogate consent to her niece and nephew, Dante and Ellie

Siobhan will not be that concerned about anything sexual you do with Dante. However, if you are being sexual with Ellie, she will actually empathize and imagine herself as Ellie. This, combined with the fact that her sister seemed to mean for her children to go by the same rules she was given, will make her more than just Ok with you having sex with Ellie. In fact, she will be a little more comfortable with the idea since Ellie is too young to get pregnant.

One odd thing Siobhan might do in response to you getting sexual with Ellie is that she will hold Ellie to the same standards she holds herself and she will try to push it to you having actual vaginal intercourse with Ellie if you are not already. She may even hold Ellie open for you as she reassures her little niece while you line yourself up and push in.

(Note: She will have a similar reaction with Danica, sex changed Dante. If there is another young girl there who is not a member of the family but is clearly willingly involved with the sex play, she will also have the same reaction to her, right down to pushing you into vaginal intercourse with her.)

Her reaction to specific sex acts

While the above can help you to predict how she might react to sex generally, below is how she will react to specific acts.

At the heading of each act, there will be a recommendation on witch relationship stat(s) will be most effective in getting her to lower her guard against this specific sex act if they cross a certain threshold. This threshold will be given a "low/medium/high" rating rather than a specific number. Although, there is a rough number each rating is meant to represent, as outlined by the table below.

Non-existent = approximately 0-10% (you are not going to see this designation appearing much.)
Very low = approximately 5-20%
Low = approximately 10-40%
Medium = approximately 30-70%
High = approximately 60-90%
Very high = approximately 80-95%
Extreme = approximately 90-100%

Note: The categories do overlap. This is to represent the wiggle room given to the writer in a case by case basis in interpreting their current score. Also, it is entirely possible to achieve consent for a sex act while falling short of the threshold with exactly the right approach, and it is also possible to have them reject you while you have far exceeded the threshold with the wrong approach.

Final note: Submissiveness is a wild card for achieving non-resistance to a sex act. However, non-resistance does not mean they will like it.

Benign sex acts

Acts such as hand-holding, hugging, and having her sit in your lap. Things that are more or less non-sexual, but can be construed in a sexual way to some extent.

Siobhan will not know how to respond to these things. She will be relieved you are not going for sex quite yet, but she will be too awkward to be slow about it like this as well. She will feel constantly like it has to be escalated and if you are moving slow then she may try to escalate it on her own in her own awkward way.

Dismissable sex acts

Acts that can just as easily be seen as sexual as they can non-sexual or unintentional. Examples include holding her ass, being shirtless around one another, or oggling her crotch.

Siobhan, once again, will not be too good with the slow seduction thing in sex. She will not know how to respond to these slow seduction tacts and feel the need to accelerate it very fast.

Be shirtless, pantless, or otherwise wearing less cloths than normal around her Recommend low in any positive result stat.

Her older sister does not strictly encourage the wearing of cloths in her house, so she will not really register that this is sexual unless you come to her fully dressed and strip down right in front of her in conditions other than her mother's orders. In this case, she will begin striping herself expecting this to move immediately to PIV sex.

Oggling her, fondling her, or grinding against her Recommend low in any positive result stat.

She is likely to react to this by actually either shoving her hands down your pants or taking off her own. She will have identified you are trying to be sexual with her, and she will think like the sex scenes in movies that all groping leads immediately to PIV sex unless someone interrupts. If you are doing this in a public area, she will try to take you to a private area.

Mild sex acts

Acts that would not be regarded as sex but cannot be seen as anything but sexual, such as kissing, groping, dry-humping, or revealing privates.

This is likely to be a little closer to what Siobhan expects sexually. She will still likely fumble about and push things farther than you intended, but she is a little more likely to follow your lead since these are more distinctly sexual.

Removing cloths or being naked around each other. Recommend low in any positive result stat.

Similar to the wearing less cloths than normal under the dismissable sex acts. Once again, due to her older sister's lax views on cloths she may fail to register this as actually sexual. However, striping off in front of her will get her striping off as well and expecting you are going to have sex right now. However, if you stop her and have her just look at your body as you look at hers she will be grateful and it will make her less nervous about other sex acts with you.

More blatant Oggling, fondling, or grinding against her Recommend low in any positive result stat.

This, again, has the exact same reaction as the dismissable version. She is likely to react to this by actually either shoving her hands down your pants or taking off her own. She will have identified you are trying to be sexual with her, and she will think like the sex scenes in movies that all groping leads immediately to PIV sex unless someone interrupts. If you are doing this in a public area, she will try to take you to a private area.

Kissing: Recommend low in any positive result stat.

Siobhan does not directly associate kissing with PIV sex, but she does know it is related in that people who have sex are in a romantic relationship and people who are in a romantic relationship kiss. She will see this as an end rather than a means. She will not oppose you kissing her, but the lower her relationship stats are with you the more it will throw her through a loop. She may expect it as natural with higher relationship stats, but with lower stats she will be shocked and start drawing all kinds of interpretations about what this means about your relationship and freaking out that you are actually her boyfriend now (and that this means you are probably going to have sex sometime soon.)

If you kiss her for the first time after having sex she will have a similar reaction to how it would be if your relationship stats were high.

Use toilet with other present in bathroom: Recommend low in any positive result stat.

Again, due to her older sister's lax approach to modesty she will think this is perfectly acceptable and probably non sexual. This is probably one of the only times she will let you look at or even touch her private area without immediately jumping to thinking you are about to fuck.

Reference or discuss moderate or hard-core sex with each other: Recommend low in any positive result stat.

Siobhan is likely to be very awkward around this subject if your relationship stats are low. She will simply answer no to any question about her having done things, yes to any question of if she would like to do something, and giggle nervously with a few comments about descriptions of certain sex acts. If your relationship stats are high with her though, you might get her to lay out exactly what her complexes about sex with you are, about how she interpreted her mother's words and how this resulted in her thinking she ought to have sex with you specifically.

Moderate sex acts

Sex acts that most would consider sex, but would not get the "hard-core" label if filmed and put on a porn site.

Siobhan's narrow views on what sex is and her sister's clean-freak approach to everything will have her uncomfortable or maybe just uncomprehending of what is going on with every act on this list.

Touch each other's bare genitals with hand Recommend low in any positive result stat.

Siobhan will be out of her depth on the subject of finger-fucking or jacking off, although if you tell her that's what's happening she will try her best to do what you say to do. However, if it is simply fondling for the sake of becoming familiar with one another's genitals, that is something she will see as a lot more natural. She will see hand to genital contact as exploration rather than sex.

Rub your bare genitals together: Recommend low in any positive result stat.

Siobhan will have to have dry-humping explained to her ahead of time, otherwise she will be expecting you to put it in the entire time. If your relationship stats are a little higher, she may even reach down and stick it in herself.

Masturbate partner to orgasm Recommend low in any positive result stat.

Siobhan will get scared if you finger her to an orgasm. She has fingered herself before (to sexual fantasies of you actually,) but she will feel uncomfortable with you doing it to her. She will feel uncomfortable getting an orgasm from you unless it comes from your penis. In terms of jacking you off, she will actually get fairly confused about you jizing all over her hand. If you warn her, she may even scramble to get it into her vagina before you blow. (She doesn't want to get pregnant, but she will try to get it in her vagina anyway because she thinks that's what's supposed to happen) It will take her a moment to register it as semen rather than pee, but since she does know about semen she will be able to figure it out on her own rather quickly. Her issue will be that she thought it was only supposed to go in the girl's vagina. (she will also be bothered by the mess it made and want to clean it up very quickly.)

Ejaculate on her body: Recommend low in any positive result stat.

If you ejaculate on her, it will take her a moment to realize what just happened but she will figure it out. Once she realizes that white stuff is sperm, she will be confused and state that "Isn't that supposed to go inside the vagina?" She will likely assume it was an accident, but she will also be relieved it didn't go inside her since she doesn't actually want to get pregnant. She will then clean up rather quickly.

Ejaculate on her head, hair, chest, or face: Recommend low in any positive result stat.

Siobhan will be grossed out by this regardless of relationship score. You might be able to calm her down, but overall she will just want to wash it off quickly.

Perform oral sex on her: Recommend medium trust and submissiveness.

Siobhan will think it is disgusting that you are licking her down there. She will have heard about oral sex, but she will insist that you don't have to do that with her since it's so gross. She will allow it if you are persistent though.

Have her perform oral sex on you:Recommend medium trust and submissiveness.

Siobhan will have heard about blow jobs, but she will think it's gross. However, if you ask for one, she will probably hold her nose and do it if you have already done a few other sexual things with her. She will try to swallow if you tell her to. If she is not swallowing though, she will be unsure of where to direct the spray and will probably try to catch it all in her arms or her lap so it doesn't get on anything else. (If she is wearing a shirt, she will probably direct it right down her shirt.)

Hard-core sex acts

Sex acts that involve semen and/or the penis going into a vagina or anus.

Girl on girl homosexual sex: Recommend low in any positive result stat.

If you changed your gender and became Lexi, the memory management will turn Siobhan into a lesbian in order to justify her constant sexual fantasies about you. As such, she will react to girl on girl sex with Lexi the same as she would most sex acts with Xander.

Vaginal sex with condom Recommend low in any positive result stat.

Siobhan will feel relieved the moment she sees you putting on the condom. She has some messed up ideas about condoms due to her strict Roman Catholic upbringing and their views on any form of birth control. This combined with the obligation she feels to have sex with you means she would have quite readily let you ejaculate inside her, but she actually really doesn't want to get pregnant from it and so she will be happy to see you have decided to use a condom.

Anal Sex Recommend low in any positive result stat.

Siobhan will not really have considered anal, but after she is introduced to the idea she will prefer it and may even insist on it so as to avoid pregnancy. Of course, this won't count if you have already had PIV sex with her.

Bare-back vaginal intercourse: Recommend low in any positive result stat.

This is what sex is to Siobhan, and this is what she will feel she is somehow obligated by her sister's words to do with you. She will trend toward trying to make this happen instead of any lower-level sex act. This is the act that occupies her thoughts, so she will awkwardly trend toward it (often times far more quickly than a normal girl) as soon as she suspects this is your intention.

Siobhan does not want to get pregnant, and she knows having sex is how she gets pregnant, but she is awkward and jumbled up enough on the subject of sex due to all the weird pressures on her that she will do it anyway just because she feels like this is what she is expected to do.

Intentionally impregnate her: Recommend low in any positive result stat.

If you (with the possible accompaniment of her niece) come to her with the express stated intention of getting her pregnant, this will cause her to think about sex and pregnancy a little differently somehow. She will feel an urge to object, but ultimately she will not voice it and she will let it happen.

Fetish sex acts

Peculiarities to her sexuality, including desires that do not have strictly to do with reproductive sex as well as what her response would be to physical or psychological force being used to perform a sex act with her. (Note: Relationship recommendations are not given at the beginning as these are things that simply manifest at the appropriate level of sex act. Feeding the fetish is more of a good approach than anything.)

Pedophilic voyeurism

Siobhan will actually like watching you have PIV sex with her niece(s,) or really any other girl who is under 12 years old. She will empathize and put herself in the girl's position, allowing her to mentally live the thrill of having sex without risking herself getting pregnant. (thus, why it has to be a prepubescent aged girl, she does not want the girl she is living through to be at risk of getting pregnant.) Something that Siobhan will actually be quite happy to do would be for you to have sex with her and then pull out before you ejaculate and stick it into a prepubescent girl's vagina to finish.

Results of physical force in sex acts:

Siobhan will have picked up some of her mother's anti-violence principals. As such, she will get very scared by physical force and it will cause her to become more resistant to any form of sexual act.

Results of psychological force in sex acts: (Using partner's submissiveness to demand sex even when they don't want it)

Technically, with how screwed up Siobhan's ideas of sex are, just asking her to have sex with you is using psychological force on her. She has painted herself into a mental corner where it comes to sex where any request for sex from Xander specifically must be obeyed regardless of her actual wishes.