Talk:Smooth Operator/Gabby's Party/Zoey/Rough finish/Go after her/Go along with what the mother's saying
So, basically, the situation I've set up here is that now that the mother knows this was Jordan's first time she is really afraid that, 1. It's a situation of the girl wanting it, then getting scared half way and changing her mind, which might or might not be considered rape depending on the circumstances and in most cases considers the male blameless, and 2. now that she found out this was Jordan's first time she is really afraid this might have turned him off of sex. In this society, harming a male or giving a male a sexual experience unpleasant enough to turn them off of sex would be considered rather grievous. It wouldn't criminal in and of itself, but she would be the one seen in the way a rapist is seen in today's society because she "ruined a male." This is the reason her attitude flipped from aggressive to trying to reassure him, especially after finding out that bit of information. (If she did commit a crime though, such as forcing sex out of Jordan, and that were associated with him being turned off from sex then it would be an aggravating factor that would make the sentence MUCH much worse.) Jemini (talk) 10:50, 24 February 2019 (CET)
Wasn't actually meaning for her to mean she's planning on taking her daughters and going home, although she very likely will go do exactly that. She's concerned for Jordan in regards to what I just said above here, so she would find such a statement a little too aggressive given the circumstances. So, if she does wind up doing that, she wouldn't be saying it to Jordan's face under these circumstances. Jemini (talk) 14:50, 25 February 2019 (CET)
Woops, I thought I typed it to sound like that was an option, not that she was just going leave with her girls right then. I thought she offered him her service and the second option to give him some space and leave. BluePanda (talk) 10:56, 25 February 2019 (CET)
It was phrased as an option, it's just that suggesting she's going to leave the party entirely if he doesn't accept comes off as a guilt trip like she's pressuring him to accept her suggestion. Saying she's going to only leave the restroom comes off more as her being considerate. It's one of the finer points of etiquette really, I can see where not as many people these days would be as aware of subtle things like that. Jemini (talk) 23:09, 25 February 2019 (CET)